Well it is my first loctober and I have failed. Mistress was extremely horny 2 nights ago and I had already pleasured her with four long extended orgasms. My caged penis was hard and pushing at my cage. She had been playing with her balls and she told me she was going to unlock me and sit on top of me. I can’t say anything she is in charge. RIGHT. well needless to say when Mistress sat on top of me, my lil penis slid right in and my lil penis brain took over and started pumping and Mistress started humping. Well we can all guess what happened next. It was amazing but still a fail. I guess I wasn’t good enough to keep her pleasured while e locked up. Well there is always next year. But all in all I am locked back up and the key is hidden away again.
There is no other endeavor where failure feels so good. Good for you. If you're both enjoying yourselves, that's all that matters.
Did you obey your Mistress? Yes? Then you didn't fail. I might decree a certain number of days chastity for husband, but if I decide I want him in me, off comes the cage. This is about ME. It's about what I want. MY decrees are obeyed. I decree it comes off and he goes in me, off it comes and in he goes. You obeyed your Mistress. You didn't fail. .Your Mistress got what she wanted. She didn't fail. This is about HER.. What Mistress decrees, happens. Mistress decreed off comes the cage and in you go.. That happened. Mistress wins, as always.
That’s how my Wife is as well, if she wants cock, she unlocks it and uses it. We had piv a few times early this month, no O’s for me of course. She also wanted to torture her property on the 17th, used a penis pump to get it uncomfortably hard, then after about 10-15 mins of that, about 10 mins of edging. It was brutal and amazing lol, then back in the cage after he went limp. What’s worrying me is that she’s dropping plenty of subtle and not so subtle hints that I should prepare mentally for NOvember and Denial December. And she has a “treat” in mind for my bday which isn’t till the last week of January. So I don’t know if she’s planning on making me wait for an orgasm till then, I just pray she’s not planning on denying erections beyond the rest of this month.
Yes I did obey. And you’re right I didn’t fail. I was just wanting to accomplish a loctober. But I aim to please.
Chastity isn't for or about you. It's for your Mistress and about your Mistress. If She wants you to accomplish Locktober, you want to and will. If she wants something else, it's what you want, too and what you do.
I am on that path now. I reminded mistress it is no nut November. So far she has has me get her off 7 times. So she is happy.