Can you get "hurt" having sex while locked up?

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    Ive been locked up most of the past 3 months or so getting out of my cage maybe a handful of times for PIV sex. My KH (wife) and I have had alot of fun playing with toys. Recemtly she got fucked by one of our strap on dildos while i was locked up. It was so hot how she was pulling it into her and wanting me to pump it in and out faster and faster. I was so excited i almost came while inside my cage. The thing is afterwards i was so hard it felt like the base ring was going to rip my balls off. The cage fits me perfectly so i know thats not it. It took me at least 20 minutes to get soft again. Can this cause any permanent damage? Is there any way to make sex more comfortable?
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    Well I've been in that position doing the same thing for the last 6 years. No ill effects! I know that feeling well. When she's "had her way" and finished, your still hard and desperate with blue balls. And there's nothing you can do about it! Strange how we actually enjoy it!
     
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    Well, I cant say I particularly enjoy the feeling of blue balls as you say. Is there anything i can do that would help?
     
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    Other than don't have sex with your wife with a strap on or unlock yourself no! You will just have to get used to it! You must remember that you are chaste and as long as your wife gets her pleasure that's all that matters! Well it is in the Chaste household anyway! :)
     
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    What about milking before or after? Would that help anything?
     
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    No idea about that I'm afraid!
     
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    For some reason a buttplug helps me.
     
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    It's fine don't worry I know this very well and there is no permanent damage. Great feeling and a little pain is good for you

    Just saying
     
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    to true!
     
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    @Cagedbkr i read your writings and I think that if you have got a big one then if you are in your cage when it goes big then it might do something bad really but you have not sayed if you are big or not so I dont know.
     
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    As a chaste husband this result is what I aspire to, knowing that she has been properly satisfied and that my penis has been properly contained and reminded that it is unnecessary for her pleasure.
     
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    I would be more concerned doing her damage then my own.

    If everything is sized correctly, you should only experience some minor discomfort but no damage. For me, I get some discomfort only when the strap on harness shifts and is too low on my body. The trick is to have is secure so the base of the dildo rests on the top portion of your pubic bone. If it slips down, it may try to push the cage ring further down your testicles. Too big a ring, and you might slip a testicle thru the loop and you will know immediately.

    The other thing to be careful and it took us quite a few times to understand, is you have no idea how hard you may be slamming her if your in the dominant position. For us the female dominant position worked best in the beginning because she could judge the depth and the force of the dildo. Once I had an idea from watching her ride me, I was better able to judge how to manage her when i was in the dominant position. Remember, we have a tendency to buy dildos that are larger than the male.

    Men have this fantasy of the wife always doing bigger, if she wants to move from a 5" to say 7", we buy the 8". If they want to try 7-8", we buy 10". My wife can now handle the 10" size, but it took a long time, lots of booze, and being severely horny to get there.
     
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    How about putting an icepack around your cage, or a bag of frozen peas as they're a better size to calm your enthusiasm. Don't forget the mental "hurt" when you see your partner writhing in pleasure whilst you are horny and frustrated
     
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