Hey guys & Ladies So, as some of you all know I have recently joined this website out of curiosity. From what I've read and from a few of the interactions I've had so far, it seems like you all are a really great bunch of folks that happen to be kinky as well as aware of yourselves in that specific sense (meaning that joining a website specifically oriented to a certain kink usually means being more knowledgeable with regards to your "kink-identity", as opposed to those who've simply heard about kink, are curious, and join a very general site like FetLife). A second observation I've made (and which has been confirmed by some), is that most of the members on here are already in committed relationships, marriages, or other dynamics. As a single, uncommitted guy looking for more of an online D/s dynamic (nothing too crazy, just mostly casual), would I really fit in here? I feel like maybe what I'm looking for and what this website provides (as great as what it may offer) simply may not coincide. What are your all's thoughts? Any insight would be greatly appreciated?
I have a partner but think I am by no means the majority here. I think between fellas like yourself, married guys with unwilling partners, and the guests and lurkers that mostly just check everything out...online is very predominant. So welcome and hope ya have fun
There's plenty for you here. As @Wonderwomanssub says, there are singles here. I found my guide and inspiration here and while I am devoted to her service I couldn't say we were a "couple". Just join in. Have you tried self-locking. How does that work for you? Explore the reasons behind your interest in chastity. It is our shared kink but we all have different motivations that brought us to it. It's fascinating to explore that. Anyway good to have you on board. Enjoy your explorations
Certianly not a misfit,,just maybe a minority,and I am no different for me chastity is not about the denial as such,but about improving the experience both for myself and for partner when unlocked for sex. Certainly I have found the triple once again is possible,,which has not been case for many yeras!!
You just have to keep in mind the female point of view and what she gets out of things if you aren’t in a relationship with her. It takes time and energy to be a key holder so you have to ask yourself, what does she get out of it? I wouldn’t do it unless I was in some sort of relationship or as a part time business.
I think this is a good place to explore what you really want, and how to get it. Online only sounds... arid?
Are you saying you've been a part of this site and had "arid" relationships with it's members for 7 years?
Geez, would never use the term "misfit". If anything I consider us all higher beings for exploring things most would not dare contemplate. We aren't misfits.. we're superheroes!
We're here to provide information and tips tricks not for using this platform as a replacement for dating imho
Nobody here is a misfit! On the other hand, we all may be misfits, as far as our society if concerned! Enjoy the site!