PA piercing

No. Not yet. Relax. Go slower.

Why are you in a 1-1/2” base ring if it’s causing you pain? I think maybe you skipped a detail.

Find a base ring size you can sleep in, and wear comfortably. For me, I went from a 2” base ring down to 1-3/4”. Anything smaller caused skin irritation over time. I’ve forced myself into 1-1/2” but that proved to be unsafe.

If the Adaptus is heavy and drawing down, and that’s why you’re trying tighter and tigger base rings, you would find the Contender cage much lighter. It’s a well balanced design.

A PA is not going to magically make your comfort and safety better.

Find a base ring diameter and ball gap that is comfortable long term. Then consider a PA but it sounds like you’re diving in deep. If you want your wife to be part of this, then be calmer about this.

Don’t “tug on the leash” and pretend it’s submission.

Do get sleep. My Contender was the first cage I could actually sleep in, and wear 24/7.

 

The base ring should not be so right that you cannot sleep. The point of the base ring is to contain erections.

A PA piercing would then provide the ultimate security, but the tube also needs to be the right size.

Not too large in girth or length. Flaccid size for girth, a bit shorter than flaccid for length. This is for a grower.

 

I think you need both: ball trap with a rear ring to contain your erections, and a PA so that you cannot withdraw your penis from the tube. It is an AND not an OR.

 

Are you sure that your tube is the right size? It should be a bit shorter than your flaccid length, and just about your flaccid diameter at that length. If it is longer or allows expansion, that can allow too much expansion, and the pushing out to get out of hand. The idea is to contain it so that it cannot really get started.

 

For me its not the ring size (I'm a stock 45mm / 1 3/4 inch) but the cage length that creates night time issues. Longer cages allow for more erection to form in the tube itself, thereby pulling on the ring and creating the pressure, a shorter cage doesn't allow this growth. Can you get a shorter tube to try with your current base ring?

 

I have recently switched over to a PA secured shaft only device.
I went with a Mousetrap, and had it made based upon my smallest shriveled measurements.
It won't prevent an erection, ...but there will be a bit of discomfort involved, and the pressure makes it go back down pretty quickly.

...But Back to the topic at hand, ...needing to pee still wakes me up multiple times per night. I no longer feel like My testicles are being pulled off, ...but apparently I grow a bit when I need to pee, so...

While you may find many reasons to get a PA, ...just be aware that it may not fix the problem of being able to sleep all the way through the night.

 

Off topic here. Who did you order the mousetrap from. Male Chastity Now used to have one but it is no longer listed.
Thanks

 

I ordered it from MCN, but apparently I got one of the last ones before it was discontinued.
I asked Mark why he discontinued this model (as I really like mine), and he replied simply that it uses a different screw from every other model (he orders parts in large quantities) , and the Mousetrap didn't sell as well as other models.

 

@Design is me
How long have you been wearing your Adaptus? You have two base rings from MCN?

I was confused by your posts. You didn’t mention a shaft only device. Only a piercing.

I am happy with my piercing. I am happy with my GlansArmor shaft only device.

But if your wife thinks you’re moving too fast you should slow down.

The Contender was more comfortable than other cages because it’s lighter. I played with ball gap size as well to prevent testicles from sneaking out. I have a wily left nut.

I ended up in a 1-3/4” ring for my Contender but made oval by 1/8” by special request. Mark gave me instructions on how to modify the ball gap slightly.

Focus on comfort. Try to settle in. Find lubricant. Shuffle to pee in the early morning and go back to bed.

Don’t just buy every device out there either. Steel is smooth. Plastic has more friction.

If the Adaptus leaves 1/4” gap at the end it might be a little too long. But not much.

 

PA yes. Ball trap no.

 

I had the same issue for 15 years (i.e. painful night time erections and trouble sleeping).

Part of my issue was that I was a grower but I could easily pull out which I didn't like. So i kept going with smaller and smaller ring sizes which were comfortable during the day, but at night the smaller ring put so much pressure on my balls that it felt like fire and no matter what I did I could not get it to calm down until the sun rose.

About 4 years ago I went with a PA and switched to a metal Rigid Chastity cage and literally overnight the issues disappeared. The three things I did differently with the cage was I went with a slightly bigger ring size but not so big that a ball could pop through and I went with a wider inside diameter but much shorter cage (i.e. went from a 30mm inside diameter to a 32mm and went from a 2.5 inch cage to a 1.6 inch cage overnight).

Before the PA i couldn't go a week without having to take the cage off and suffering from sleep deprivation, but since then I'm caged virtually 95% of the time (i.e. I was only out of the cage 8 days last year, mostly for medical reasons).

This is obviously just my experience and everyone has different issues, but hopefully this might help someone out there not struggle like I did for 15 years.

 

Hello what a beautiful set of ankles , I would love to be able to worship them and maybe things on a higher plane what a lucky Lady you are

 

I ordered the Adaptus with 1-3/4 ring and had to order the 1-7/8 ring and then reduced the ball gap a smidge, I absolutely love this cage, I could easily stay in it 24/7. It is rare that morning erections wake me in it, seems to quell the erections fairly quickly. Some of the cheap Chinese cages really would tug on the testes really badly lol

 

You are going to get plenty advice about the size, but I'm going to add to it by saying you may be sizing it wrong. People frequently say it should be slightly shorter than and about the same width as your flaccid penis. This recommendation is not gospel even though it is presented as such. I am very much a grower and I grow in girth at a larger ratio than length. For me the secret was a cage that was wider than and about the same length of my flaccid penis. The wider cage gave me room to slightly swell to fill the cage.

It's almost like I had a base level of blood flow that need to go into my penis. When the cage was narrow, this flow would immediately cause my penis to get longer and push the cage away from my body. When there was extra width, this base level blood flow would cause my penis to swell, but would stop it from getting longer and pushing away from the body. It made a significant difference especially in my sleeping. I rarely wake up in the middle of the night unless I truly need to pee. Uncomfortable erections just don't happen that frequently anymore.