how do you hide it from a partner?

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    Just a question/query,
    I was reading another thread where a man is possibly going to be locked without his wife's knowledge.

    I didn't want to ramble all over his post and make it sound like a judgement on him personally so here goes.

    How would you or could you wear a chastity device and keep it secret from a partner ?
    Has anyone ever done it successfully and not been discovered?

    I am just very curious as to how it can be done especially if the two people live together.
     
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    Why would you want to?
    If your going to lie to your best friend, it probably ain't worth doing it
     
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    I have a ,how shall I say a close aquaintance, who has been married for 20 years . In conversation about her medical needs when she came out of hospital for a pace maker op , she let slip that they have never seen each other naked.
    I am fairly sure they have never had sex of any kind .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    I guess it would work if the 2 people lived completely seperate lives and slept in different bedrooms etc
     
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    salonslave I play for a living and work for fun.

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    Why bother with the paperwork if you aren't intimate.
    Oh, and the lady with the pacemaker . . . If the marriage was never consumated, they might not be married. Surely there are no lawyers visiting the Mansion, or are there?
    Ss
     
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    I went 3 days before I told my wife I had self locked, but she didn't know up until that point. I get up before her, I fall asleep after her, it's not hard (pun intended).
     
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    wishful Locked for Love

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    In the very early days I did self lock with out Miss knowing as I wanted to test things out etc. We are close and we sleep together etc but it is possible to keep it secret for a while certainly not indefinately for us. I do go along with why would you though. The real key to it is Miss controlling the key.
     
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