Is "milking" medically necessary?

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Is "milking" medically necessary?

  1. Yes, milking is medically necessary

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  3. No, milking isn't medically necessary

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    Locked for 11 days now in an A273 ball-trap cage. I'm absolutely dying to cum, and my balls are a little sore. People sometimes speak here as if "milking" is medically necessary for safe chastity, but is that really true? If it is necessary I'll ask my keyholder for permission to cum while caged using a vibrator.
     
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    Stop being selfish. She will unlock you when she feels like it. if your lucky she won’t stop before you mess andlock you back up
     
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    the bottom line is no one knows

    what few studies have been done involved small groups that relied on honor system reporting

    to have an actual answer, doctors would have to follow men for a long period while knowing how often they ejaculate


    is it 'medically necessary'? maybe. is it beneficial without any other type of release? probably.

    should you be the first to try and go 20 years without any release so we can all find out? definetly

    we believe in you!
     
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    The point to milking (at least as I see it) is no o. A vibrator on a cage until you cum doesn’t qualify, in my view.
     
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    While milking let's your cum flow out without an orgasm, I don't believe it is medically needed. All it does is let your cum flow with no climax. Enjoy!

    MistressS
     
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    Milking is not medically necessary. The body will discard old sperm and make new. And if the body needed to get rid of it through ejaculation, it would get rid of it through ejaculation whether or not if you are wearing a cage. Milking could be seen as a humiliating act that drives a sub deeper into his space.
     
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    OK poll here is a pretty clear answer - I won't ask for anything, just suffer! Well actually I'm encouraged to beg for release regularly, but it doesn't actually get me anywhere :)
     
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    11 days?? Come on! 5 weeks here. Some members are regulars of the 365 club!

    You've got this!
     
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    I know it's nothing for many of you, but so far it's a lot for me :)
     
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    #10 Alana, Jun 4, 2020
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    My last Full O was Nov 2nd. since then I have successfully performed 3 self milkings.
    ...Which I will define here as emissions without an Orgasm. ("Random Drooling" doesn't count IMHO)
    Do I believe they were Medically necessary? Probably Not.
    Do they feel Good? ...well yes, but not as good as an Actual O
    Do they help? ...for me ...I feel less full and desperate, but not necessarily less horny or frustrated afterwords. To be fair, it seems that I enjoy this particular kind of frustration, so I will argue that it absolutely helps.
     
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    I asked a urologist. The answer was no.
    Ask yours if ejaculation is necessary.
     
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    "Ask your urologist if Chastity (TM) is right for YOU!" (may cause sexual frustration, obedience and masochistic delight)
     
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    Physically its not, mentally it is. While one may not get orgasm relief, just seeing it flow and having someone massaging you does lighten the load. Additionally, my wife does take pleasure in it, when we are in role she has even more power over me and her words are like a sharp stick into me. Either way, while somewhat relieved, its still leaves you slightly frustrated.

    Now we use chastity as a was of enhancing our sex live and an extension of teasing, flirting, hardcore sex, and BDSM. Imagine what frustration it provides a person truly in the lifestyle and the power in the hands of the dominant.
     
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    In my personal experience I found that after an extended period of chastity I began having periodic wet dreams. This was about two months in for me personally. So, it's my opinion that my body took care of itself.

    I honestly don't know for sure, but I would imagine any negative effect on your prostate would be negligible (knock on wood)
     
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    Absolutely! Milking requires penetration :oops:


    If you're "lucky" enough to get the flow! Sometimes, you're just left breathless :oops:
     
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    Prostate massage has been studied for potential benefit in treating prostatitis. There is some thought that it could help with chronic conditions. As far as for chastity? Well that would depend on whether or not you developed prostate problems too. It does help. M doesn't do this but she likes a good ruined O and that has been more of what I get these days. I'm not complaining though. It is better than nothing yet I am still horny as all get out.
     
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    I don't understand how anyone could think it is a must medically... I don't get it, are you troling?
     
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    my urologist (one of the best in france) said that it wasn't necessary :
    if sperm has to go out, it will do it alone during the night (nocturnal emission).
     
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    Not trolling, possibly just driven mad with frustration :)
     
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    Common chastity lore suggests that men need to ejaculated at least once a week/month/quarter in order to avoid blocked up vessicles. As if your penis is a half used tube of caulk, and the contents will gel or harden if not used.

    Yes, not having a release for some time does seem to change the consistency of semen, but except for unusual medical conditions, your body does not "need" to have an orgasm.
     
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    Consider what happens during a vacectomy. A doctor literally blocks the flow of sperm. So obviously there is no need to evacuate sperm from your body.

    One could argue orgasms might help prostate health but no imperial evidence exist to either prove or deny the benefits of orgasm.

    But damn if they don't feel good!
     
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    No it isn’t needed, you will be fine, your body will learn to cope and over come on time.
     
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    empirical evidence. Unless youre refering to that provided by your Queen. In which case, one always concurs.
     
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    Oops! But you are right!
     
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    Purging of goo from time to time is the body's way getting rid of what's in there, then produces more, and it's a cycle. For those that are sexually active, orgasms do this. Those that aren't, it comes out whether you are aware of it or not. It may be obvious (leaking) or not so obvious where it just comes out when you pee. When this doesn't happen, the incredibly rare condition of actual 'blue balls' where seminal fluid is not released/backed up occurs..
    My 'cycle' is about every 7-10 days while locked where I'm easily aroused and there is a noticeable 'purging' going on for a couple of days at the longest, sometimes just for a couple of hours, then there is a 'rest period' where I guess you could say my body is producing more to replace what it purged until the next 'cycle'... I think most guys probably experience this and it's quite regular.
    Milking or medicinal orgasms... wow... I'd have to say that the only ones that would insist that they are needed are guys that aren't committed to the chastity itself. Give it a couple of days and it'll get easier to bear. If you give it a couple of weeks, you'll begin to recognize how your body works...
     
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