Quitting chastity after 12 years

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    After 12 years of a chastity lifestyle we are quitting it. We are both in our 70's with medical issues that more and more interrupt our chastity play. The last straw was my Vice chastity cage breaking on me. It is made of cheap plastic and not worth the money. The reason they charge so much is that they give you 4-5 rings and all sorts of adaptors, etc.. to fit many sizes. In that respect it works fine. The problem is that it is not a 24/7 long term device due to its regular plastic construction unlike the Resin used in other non metal devices.

    Mine crack in my sleep by simply moving around or getting an erection. I was surprised to find it was made of just normal easily breakable plastic. Since then I read a lot of reviews and it turns out that serious chastity players mostly said the same thing that this is not a device for 24/7 long term wear more than a few days at a time. Its gimmick is the anti pull out device and what gets people to buy an otherwise cheap plastic cage. Think of a CB6000 with an anti pullout ring on it. MY CB6000 cracked on me twice before I went to a Mature Metal custom cage which no longer fits me and they cannot make the cage smaller. However, try wearing the anti pullout device 24/7 for a few months and you will find out why it is a good idea but not for long term use.

    Anyway, I will bow out of this forum as I have said all I need to say in previous posts. We had a good run but I am done buying new cages online as they are either too heavy, bulky, poorly made, etc. and I do not have the patience to wait a few months for a new custom cage and then the going back and forth to have it adjusted. Life is too short and as my life is winding down, best to spend it catching up on all those orgasms I have missed in the last decade or so. Wish you all well but I know most of you will not be here in a few months as I have been in forums since before the internet went graphical. Even had my own forum for sexual matters and people get into fetishes and out just as quickly.
     
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    Vinny - Wishing you the best on your journey!
     
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    Sorry to see you go but I wish you all the best in the future.
     
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    I don't believe that I could agree more about your thoughts about your priorities. Matter of fact, Thank you for sharing this glimpse of your world. and enjoy those big O's here's to plenty of them! Cheers!
     
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    Good luck.
    Sorry to see you go.

    May you and yours have many happy healthy years left.
     
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    Sorry to see you go, hoping for a long and happy future for you.
     
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    Thats a pity
     
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    Good luck and God speed.
     
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    All the best your journey!
     
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    Sorry to see you go, good luck with the future
     
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    Sorry to see you go, but that is why I always recommend steel chastity cages, you'll never break one of those!
    I do understand the aging/heath reasons, I'm headingthat way myself!
     
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    I understand your decision and personal choice. I wish you only the best going forward. Life moves on and things change. I am a bit curious though after you have been in chastity for so long, if you feel you are missing the feeling of being caged just from having it on for so many years?

    When I have had mine on for so long that dont for a few days it feels like I am physically missing something thats always there if that makes sense.
     
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