I am sure it’s only natural, but as we have moved and evolved, so has her expectations and sympathy. She asked for a foot rub last night and I kinda heehawed around but eventually got around to it. She mentioned, “you aren’t really excited about it, must be cause you just locked up and won’t be getting out for a long time”. Which I found funny that 5 days to her now is “just locked up”. I remember when we started, I had imagined the device would be off just as much as on. She let me out nightly for some play, and was even concerned about my skin and rubbed vitamin E oil on me every night. Now 5 days is just locked up, and the device being on is my default setting, it’s only removed for a few minutes of fun once a month or two. Our toy box rivals Adam and Eve catalog now. We have 7,8, and 10 inch dildos...and a few monsters I bought on accident that shouldn’t be inserted into anybody lol! We have a powerful doxi wand, harnesses for her cock selection, and a few cock sleeve extenders that go on me. We have paddles, straps, rope, blind folds and gags. One thing I’ve noticed is that our selection that we actually use has centered around things for her that eliminates her need for me to be unlocked. Even the strapon really only works if I’m caged and it’s out of the way. Just the rambling of someone “just locked” hehe
Are you ready for it, her comes the cliche be careful what you wish for Actually that is so awesome how she dove in head first from the beginning and has really embraced the lifestyle. It's funny what starts to feel normal especially after a few years.
Your toy collection sounds awesome by the way. We have a decent collection too but it doesn't come out as often as I'd like it too.
Ours doesn’t either...except for doxi wand, I have a feeling we will eventually burn that one up. Most of the time about once or twice a month we break them it when she wants actual sex and not just an orgasm from a vibe.