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    So just starting. Not sure about sharing, but here goes. Just started trying chastity this month after some chastity videos I ran acrossed while watching porn. Wife is fine with me satisfying myself when ever I want when she is not interested. We have been married 40 years and she is open minded, even about things she is not interested in. I am into anal, and she has tried but just doesn't like it, but she is fine with with doing me.

    Started with a couple hours in the cage and have worked up to over 12 hours. Still haven't gone overnight as this cage is just too uncomfortable. Saturday after 12 hours, and several "driveby" teasings through the day, I told her I would be able to keep it on much longer. If she was interested in doing anything I was planning to take it off and try to resist doing anything myself, then put the cage back on the next morning.

    She met me in the bedroom, pinched and sucked my nipples. They have been pierced for over 25 years,and are one of my most sensitive areas that she often pays attention to. She then told me to bend over the bed and used a dildo on me. Something she does for me fairly often. But with the cage on it was better than normal.

    Then she made me stay there and she climbed on ghe bed and made me watch her use her vibrator. After awhile she stopped, inserted a medium sized butt plug into me and told me to rub her for awhile.

    Then she grabbed the key, took off the cage and started rubbing me. It was so intense I thought I was going to finish in the first 10 seconds. It actually took about five minutes and was one of the best orgasms I've had in years. After she surprised me by saying she was about to stop and put me back in the cage if it had taken any longer. Which I found hotter than I had expected.

    Of course I cleaned up all the toys and stuff.
     
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    Went yesterday without the cage then put it back on this morning. Today was the first time in public caged. Went out for lunch and got bbq, then to the store to get antifreeze for her car. Came home and did a couple hours yardwork and gardening.

    Came in got cleaned up and sat down. Wife came in said she was going in to get cleaned up. After what seemed like a long time I went into the bedroom to check. She was on the bed rubbing herself. She told me rub her. She said make her orgasm and she would let me out. I was planning to try my first overnight, but she told me make her cum, so I did. She took off the cage and told me to rub myself. She got out the vibrating dildo and used it on me.

    I had two small presquirts before I finished. It wasn't as good as the other night, but still better than normal. I did have much more distance than usual, and missed the waterproof quilt we use to protect the sheets and mattress, so I had to strip the bed. Still debating if I will put the cage back on before bed tonight or wait until tomorrow.
     
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    Good luck with it
     
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    Put the cage back on at bedtime, didn't make it through. Took it off about 5am, put it back on at 8:30 when I got up. Have another cage ordered that should be here today, an HT style cage that should be more comfortable.
     
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    Welcome congratulations
     
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    Got the HT cage yesterday about noon, swit he'd to it. Only lasted about 2 hours before it became too much, even though it is more comfortable over all, still needs an adjustment period. Took it of and finished the yard work I had started earlier. After only a half hour felt fine again. Let myself out until 8pm, then tried it on again.

    I've had it on twelve hours now, made it through the night for the first time in a cage, didn't sleep a well but slept. It is starting to become uncomfortable again, and while I wasn't in a cage the whole time it has been 4 days without orgasm, so I'm not going to make it much longer.
     
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    I'm stretching my PA, which I've had for a long time, to use with a cage. Recently stretched it from 12ga to 10ga and took some time off from the cage. Soreness almost gone so put the cage back on this morning. Told the wife, immediately she pinched and sucked my nipples, and nade ne give her a hand massage.
     
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    I have two HT style cages of thr same model different sizes. A standard and a large. The standard is a little tight but the right length, the large fits better, 37mm vs 35mm, but is a little long. Between all the rings I thought I had the right ring gap with the standard, but after a couple hours one testicle pulled out. So switched to large on the same ring so the game is 2mm less. Seems to be working. I've had it on 5 hours no issues. Wife had pla,Ed to tease me tonight, but we gad unexpected storms go through and they gave her a migrane, so she just wants to be left alone.
     
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    Oh, and is there a way to edit posts. Between my mis-typing and stupid autocorrect, I keep finding errors after I hit post.
     
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    She was feeling better today and had me give her a foot massage while she rubbed herself. I can't believe how much it excited me, I dripped all over. Then she made me rub her. She told she might let me out tomorrow, but if I didn't make her cum I would have to wait longer. I made her her finish so I may get to tomorrow.
     
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    Thanks for sharing!
     
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    So 5 days without an orgasm. I really can't remember the last time I've gone 5 days. First two uncaged after stretching my PA from 12ga to 10ga. Put the cage on last Friday and other than a couple minutes at a time for adjustments and cleaning, it has been on. It will come off Thursday no matter what as I have a doctors appointment this Friday. PA is feeling fine, so plan on stretching it to 8ga after. Of course I have to check with my wife to see what she says.
     
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    She let me lick her and rub her last night, but she wasn't really into it. We had a long talk. She said she felt like she was supposed to be teasing me constantly and that it was too much like work. I assured her, yes I would love constantly teasing between releases, but I truely expect nothing.

    She loves foot massages, but for her they are totally not sexual. I let her know that, surprisingly to me, giving her a foot massage while caged was extremely exciting to me. I dripped profusely, and for hours after I was as satisfied as I'd had an orgasm. This made her feel much better, that she could be involved as much or little as she wanted, and it was still good for me. At the end of the conversation she said if and when i'm ready, she would be wiling to take all the keys.
     
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    After dinner tonight she told me to go watch porn with my cage on, she would be in I a little bit. Found a 20 minute video of a sub being strapped down, his case being taken off after 7 days and his miss sitting on his face while she rubbed his cock. She would tell him to concentrate and he would reply he was trying. She said he didn't do good enough, wife walked in about that time and started watching. The dom made him finish then kept rubbing for 5 more minutes while he yelled please, mercy. Wife said oh that's hot. So I'm not sure if that is something she is thinking of doing in the future.

    Then she got on the bed naked, had me watch her stretch and rub herself. Then she had me massage her legs and feet. She got up and played with my nipples. Then she told me that's all for tonight and tomorrow we would finish.
     
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    YOU, have a great wife. Treat her well, and help her build her self confidence. Your long marriage is about to get very hot.

    If you like BBQ, you amongst friends!
     
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    Wow, this morning I was sitting in he bedroom chair talking to he wife about if we were going to do yard work today before it starts raining this afternoon. She knelt down in front of my chair ran her hands up inside my pajama pants and started teasing my balls. It was incredible. She had me rub and lick her nipples while she was teasing me. This went on for ten minutes or more. She gad me get on the bed, took off my cage and started rubbing, slow and easy. She edged me twice. Then stopped, I thought she was going to put me back in the cage. At this point it was already the best sex I'd ever had so I wouldn't have minded. But she got out the vibrating dildo and pegged while having me masterbate to finish. Just before, she took over, finished me and continue rubbing for some post orgasm stimulation. By this time I was spent and it didn't do much good or bad. She got up to wash up and left me there with the dildo inserted. It took me about 5 minutes before I could get up and clean up.

    I've always loved sex, had a very high sex drive, and we have tried different things. But I had no clue just how good it could be. I'm being left out of the cage at least until after Friday's doctor's appointment. Then we will see where we are at.
     
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    Yes, I was surprised too. When you release control to her, actually let her control, amazing things can happen.

    Just resist the urge to meddle in her decisions. Let her run with it. Trust her.
     
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    Well after this morning's session my PA seemed a little tender. Checked it and it was fine but a little loose. Apparently it was rough enough to stretch it a little, seeing as I was planning to stretch to 8ga Friday anyway, I took out the 10ga ringcand slipped in an 8ga no problem. I have a cheap cage 8 copy that won't work for me, but it came with two bottom pieces, one with an 8ga PA post. I figure I can use it without the back ring like a cage 7. Dying to try it, but not until after the doctor appointment.
     
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    Will be cageless at least until Friday afternoon, but mentally trying to stay in the "it's locked" frame of mind.
     
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    Still tender from the PA stretching so cageless, but staying in the caged frame of mind, wife asked me give her a foot massage, which I did. I am treating requests as requirements. She asked me to lick her, I did. She asked me to rub her to orgasm, I did. Then she said, you are still healing, you can't do anything. It wasn't quite as thrilling as when the cage, but as frustrating. We got cleaned up and talked about our fantasies, and then I had to change my pants.
     
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    Was feeling good today, and received my 6ga taper and ring, so went for it. It was more painful and difficult than expected. But the 6ga ring is in. There will be no need for a cage for awhile.
     
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    Whew that stings. I'm having a bourbon and coke, and uts my last shot of bourbon. Not sure what I'm having next.
     
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    For my next numbing agent I went with a High Jamacian Wind. That's a White Russian with spiced rum instead of vodka.
     
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    Well, some hiw installing the 6ga ring I caused a blood blister inside, so no ring until it heals.
     
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