I've heard about this before,but haven't seen it discussed. What do you think about giving your ex-gf or ex-wife the keys to your device?
Echoing everything said so far, but adding that, were I still in contact with my last ex, she was the sort who would understand chastity and the need for a KH. She would likely have agreed, and would probably have been very supportive.
very much depends on the nature of the split. If it's amicable, it could work. Otherwise, not feasible.
Interesting Idea, but I think that the process of chastity play leads to a deep bond between the locked and the keyholder- that's why we do it anyway. You should consider if a deep bond between you and an ex is for the best. If the relationship really is over, is this going to help you move on? Good luck!
Depends partly on how the relationship ended.But I suspect most ex GFs or Wives would not want to be involved as they would suspect that it was an attempt to rekindle the relationship
Agreed! Why and what the reasons are resulting in the split up, will probably be the most important questions to ask oneself. Likewise, people change, so an ex may or may not be the same person from before.
Speaking for myself, the fantasy comes from knowing my ex wont give me the key back easily. The fact that it would be SO arduous would keep you in chastity longer than someone that might give in and give you the key sooner. Like I said, I'm sure I'm not the first person to think of this, and for probably just this reason.
I can’t believe anyone would actually fantasize about this. Letting someone hold the key to your privates is an act of trust. You are trusting them to make the correct decision on its use, not just to keep you in the device. If looking for ways to lock yourself longer, surely there are better ways. Its almost like a back door way to get someone to abuse you...get someone that doesn’t care for you to make decisions on whether you feel pleasure or stay in bondage.
I have to agree with Nicoftime. If your hole is to be locked with no pleasure and never see the key again than give it to your X. Think of why your not together anymore and your thinking should become clearer.
In my own case, my ex would be far more supportive than my wife. We're not in touch but that is why I would fantasise about it. We split because she thought that I was making her boring. Had I ever gone to her with an offer of being A KH she would have rightly seen it as a chance to play mentor. YMMV.
As others have said, friends on where the relationship with your ex is. if she's going to be revengeful and you want to be securely locked with no chance of release them why not chuck the keys down a drain. If you think there may be some thing there that's worth exploring AND you know her then could be worthwhile assuming you mention what the keys are for and why. Or is this a fictional ex gf? I've got lots of ex gf and an ex wife. There's only one I would dream of mentioning that I was chaste with. She would want to see the cage and then have a good laugh at me probably teasing me too. A
Sounds more like a fantasy based on humiliation. Nothing wrong with that but unlikely to happen in reality. Having sad that, there must be one or two of them out there in the big wide world though!