Role Reversal - House Hubby / Working Wife

Good luck

 

I am a mostly house hubby. I work a few hours a week but mainly from home. I do all the cleaning, laundry and take care of most shopping and meals. I also do anything my Queen wants on a day to day basis. It is the greatest life I could of ever hoped for.

 

I’m close to the same situation as LockedVince. I am fortunate to earn enough to only need to work outside of the house a few days a month. The rest I can do from home by giving a few hours a week to it. The rest of the time I’m cleaning, running errands, organizing, shopping, etc. She works full time + in her role, so the dynamic works well. I’m in chastity except when she wants to use her cock and then I’m right back in the cage. It’s one of the best scenarios for us that organically developed and just works out well for us.

 

My wife is the primary breadwinner but could not do it without me waiting on her hand and foot.

I also work but make very little money. I'm hoping to change that soon.

I keep craving dominance and humiliation, partially as a response to the stress of our lives and she knows and accepts this.

She doesn't order me to lock up very much but I do all the chores...and I mean all.

My orgasms are generally limited to once a week in the manner she chooses.

 

Thanks for sharing!

 

Same here.. i hd stoped working since losing my job few yrs bk.. she goes out to make a living.. i stil hv som pasive investment.. we hv no children.. she drives hersef n somtimes late returns with last minute asignment, tasks.. visits..diners..just like me previously.. our roles r reversed.. i take care of d house.. im quite handy ard.. ok, i can repair roof leaks.. i can cook up a storm in d kitchen.. we r not fusy eaters.. Sex wise? Its oral for her .. n her alone.. i hv been in chastity for last 6yrs.. d dick is for pro-creation n to pee.. she says.. no more re-creation..

 

I was a house hubby for a number of years. While I did many chores and always had the evening meal ready for when she got home from work, it took a while until she gave me a specific daily task as she left in the morning every day. Now it doesn't feel right if she doesn't.

 

If it weren't for my salary, she would prefer me to be, as she calls it her "house bitch".

 

I have a full time job working 10-12 hours, 5 days a week. When I get home from work I do a quick clean up of whatever clutter might have happened, from dogs or her, sweep, take the dogs out, garbage out, misc dishes, then start on supper.

She gets home and after supper I try to get the dishes done, and pack her lunch for the next day. That’s it during my work week, but my days off I get up when she does, make her coffee and lunch, start laundry, clean bathroom, floors, bedding and start a project around the house…will be mostly outside for the summer on those projects.

If she has something specific she will mention it, the other stuff is expected.

 

We have a backup key that is tamper sealed for emergency situations. In the event of a planned release for the doctor or travel and she can’t be there, then I take replacement tamper seal with me that is numbered. She is notified when I take it off and when it goes back on. Then, I also send her a picture of everything resealed so she can see the new number in use

 

The term "role reversal" might imply that the proper or normal role is a woman who stays home and a husband who works. That might have been true in the 1950's in white, polite society...but hasn't really been the case for a very long time now.

Men and women work.

Just recently making casual observations of columns of soldiers boarding aircraft for flights to deployed areas, I didn't count numbers, but observed a large relative percentage of women, as well as men. Men were certainly still the majority, but it would be incorrect to define a role that way. Many households have two breadwinners, while many have just one, and some, none.

When we speak of "role reversal" as putting the man in the place of house husband, submissive, or in a position of reduced authority, by default we are declaring that the normal role is that women are submissive, with less authority. I disagree with that premise at it's most basic root. That is not the natural role of women. The best we can say is that we are defining the dynamic within our own household. In this home, the man is in charge. In this one, the woman. In this one, equals. But none are a reversal.

A man who stays home to cook and clean is as valid as any role one might fill, so long as as it's acceptable to both parties. My ex-wife married, as her current and 7th or 8th husband (I think; I've lost track) a man in a wheel chair. He doesn't work. He's on disability. One would need to be particularly crude to suggest he's not doing his duty by not going out and working, and certainly the fact that he doesn't work isn't a conscious "role reversal." She works (a small miracle for her: the decade or so of our marriage, she didn't work). That's their world. In my own, today, my wife stays home, and I go abroad and work. If I were to be injured and stay home or if she chose to go to work and it supported us, I wouldn't call it a role reversal. That can only apply to the individual case. If the original poster, for example, identifies his relationship as a role reversal, then who is to question it? It's what it is, for him.

I submit that in general terms, a man at home and a woman working is not a role reversal of it's own accord. If the couple determines it to be, then so be it. But to define a role of one sex or gender as working and another sex or gender as attached to the home, is to suggest that either "has their place," and in todays world, that's more than a stretch. It just ain't so.

 

I think that the situation you've described would be idyllic, regardless of who stands in either role. What. you describe is a couple that's happy, and I'm not sure what more one could possibly ask from life, than that.

 

Hi Pup,

I applaud you for what you do and how your dynamic works. I dislike gender roles, they are meaningless in my opinion. It sounds like you and your wife have a dynamic that works for you.

 

My wife cannot walk, feed herself, go to the bathroom by herself, or bathe.

So yeah.

 

I work outside the house and inside the house, the way a man ought to

 

I just meant that you gotta do something. Gardening. Groceries. Gotta stay busy, or you won't feel good about yourself