hi, I'm new to chastity and my girlfriend wishes to lock me up! I feel this should be marked with a ceremony of some sort, either privately or in the presence of some friends - has anyone here done such a thing?
Wonderful is a most unceremonious sort so we don't ourselves, but I certainly have read posts containing ceremonies from other members. One particularly comes to mind though I don't remember who by, you'll possibly find some if you have a look using the site's search function.
Good idea! A locking-up ceremony to be celebrated as your most important anniversary.Your gf should invite two of her friends as witnesses of your pledge.If they're all scantily dressed,it would be a useful reminder of what you'll be denied but they may need some ice to reduce your ardour
I've seen reports of this, even wordings, but no idea if were real or fantasy. But why not? I like seasoned's idea of gf having 2 witnesses. Keys can go in sealed envelope or whatever and the witnesses can sign over the seal
Thank you! I think at the ceremony I should earn the right to be locked up and committed...any ideas for tasks welcome
U should be made to beg for her to lock it up . Asking for at least an hour whilst your missus either ignored your pleas or laughs with her friends. Maybe she should get u to write an essay on why u want her to lock u up ?
Pleading to be locked up should be part of the ceremony. The script of the pleading could be along the lines of wedding voes.
Not done it myself but why not? Maybe she can have two gfs witness the lockup, put keys in an envelope, seal it, and they can sign over the seal.
Not if your new to chastity. You both need sometime to see what you both like and dislike from it first. Then when you addicted to it as you would be come and she has seen all the improvements in you attitude you can do something formal. It would be thrilling to be locked in front of others and then having you Wife/Gf hand the keys to your two lovely witness asking them to hold these till they think you should get unlocked. Now your Wife/Gf can't give in to your pleads which will soon happen. She will just smile and say something like, Sorry Honey, I don't have the keys, why don't you get down here and start pleasing me and maybe I'll call one of them soon and ask for a key someday in the future..
My M/W and I did a short ceremony when she collared me. It was just the two of us with some candles and wine. She locked me a month or so afterwards. I remember trembling putting it on and her locking it in place. You really feel the power exchange when that lock clicks shut.
@Craviotto82 I heartily encourage you to consider @Missy Tanya 's insights & experience! Be true to yourselves and have a blessed journey!
I totally agree. Chastity is not easy for males, especially in the first few weeks, and it would be such a pity if you found it intensely uncomfortable and had to ask to be released. Not only would your Mistress be upset but the witnesses would see it all as some sort of charade. I advise you to wait awhile.
Mistress Wolf and i had a renewal of vows followed by a submission ceremony. I think I posted a copy of the ceremony someplace. Was allowed to write it myself, subject to final approval of Mistress Wolf AND the Ordained Priestess performing the ceremony. total of 15 of our closest friends shared and witnessed... Might be in my Alpha to Omega journal.
Found it, it's in about the 5th or 6th post in this thread. http://www.chastitymansion.com/foru...ing-wedding-vows-with-a-twist-need-help.9002/