I often get asked if I get some pleasure from locking males. Chastity is not a fetish for me, Chastity is a tool for controlling males in a similar way to putting a collar on a dog. People put collars on their dogs because it is useful, it allows the beast to be controlled easier, not because they are into BDSM. It’s useful to break the males addiction to masturbating and it's beneficial to their lives. It’s good to get them out of their often selfish ways and habits and to make them start thinking of others. Long term chastity is a unmistakable sign of their devotion and obedience to their Mistress. THIS is what gives me pleasure. Sometimes chastity can even be amusing, but no it is not a fetish for me. Does anyone else have similar views?
I've just got mine on today as my partner wanted to have control of my penis and kerb my masturbation. This is new to me so posts like this are an insight into what to expect from this. It would seem a lot is going to change if my other half thinks about this and has done the research I assume he has. Going to be a journey
Originally, I thought about chastity after hearing experiences where a lady finds out her spouse has had an affair. You hear the man wants to keep the marriage. It dawned on me, why hasn't the couple committed to controlled chastity? The husband who has shown himself to not be trustworthy might rebuild respect by living the lifestyle and perhaps gaining his independence. This is not to say the fetish thing might not work for others, but it is not the only way to view this.
I think with my KH it's both a turn on and a pain in the ass. It's erotic seeing me frustrated and unable to do anything about it, but also inconvenient that she just can't reach down and do whatever she wants. She has to unlock me, make a decision to unlock me, deny me yet not deny herself.
Lol no, we've figured out how to get around that quite easily. She actually has a small crush on our strap-on Johnson. She does however like to have me inside her and cum inside her, which is somewhat counter to what she believes this is all about. She doing fine with it, loves it actually, but has mentioned that sometimes she would rather just have me, and not have the cage, worrying about if I should cum, etc.
I do adore how chastity puts a handle on all that loving warmth and energy I would have otherwise let leak away. For me, it's just another part of what I consider clean living. I'm very in love with the fetish element though, it's profoundly mentally stimulating.