My beloved other half and myself are going to tie the knot in August 2014, and as a wedding gift to her, she would like me to go without orgasm for a year before. Therefore making our wedding night even more special when after a year of denial she will allow me to orgasm. It's an idea we have toyed with in the past (a year's denial that is) and when she mentioned it for the wedding it just seemed perfect. So now the day is approaching in the next few weeks. My last orgasm for 365 days and I have to say I'm getting slightly nervous but also very excited. So I was just wondering if there has been any others out there who have done 'the year' and if they had any tips or advice.
Not quite a year to date (getting closer though), but after the first 6 months the months after become a lot easier. Once your mind and body become accustom to no orgasms things do calm down, but the first 7-10 days are really intense. To the point that when you approach your release date you start to question whether you really need to or not given the torment of starting all over again.
Was locked for 350 days last year. I have to admit, after about 4 months it wasn't any sort of issue. Lots of anal stimulation and irregular milking really changed my focus on what aroused me.
If you really want some advice. On your wedding night after a year of being locked you say she is going to give you the key in the signed envelope. When she does, tell her this and then live up to it. I really want to make this night special for you and all about you, then ask her to take the envelope back. My guess is she will both really appreciate that and never forget it.
Did all of 2013 that way. It was not as pleasurable as recalled,and after was depressed, short tempered and miserable
It was certainly an experience Joroincharge, my wife (then fiancee) actually stopped 'the game' after 256 days as she felt she was no longer in control of my orgasms, she said she liked deciding whether or not I came (which doesn't actually mean I get to cum). Now I am back to being denied for undetermined amounts of time at her leisure. I actually documented my wedding gift, if you're interested... http://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/the-gift.9561/