I would be very interested in the opinions of some of the experienced keyholders here at the mansion. How often should men be allowed a release in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s? ? I'm referring to after initial training and acclimating is complete - say year 2 and beyond. Also wondering whether all releases should be discontinued after a certain age. Grateful for your thoughts.
In my experience it has nothing to do with age. Every relationship is different. And as a rule, there are none.
I am in my sixties and have gone as long as 4 months. That was my limit and probably still is. We were doing long term chastity for 3 years, took a break and now just get denied in-between holidays and special occasions. There is only one part of the year where I have to go 3 months but it will usually be a month or two most of the time. I do not start to feel like I am in chastity until after 2 weeks due to my lower libido at my age so I need a least a month to get into the obedient mood that my wife wants me to be in. Plus my wife prefers sex with women so my orgasms are basically mercy orgasms because she loves me. I never make her orgams. She only uses her vibrator. So my situation is different. I do not have a high sex drive anymore and a wife who is more than good with going as long as I can without having mental or physical difficulties.
I'm 66 (one more '6' and I'll have realised my true calling) and my releases occur at 2 to 5 week intervals without the 'assistance' of a chastity device. At 2 weeks I feel a calmness come over me and I'm at peace with myself and the world. I like to go longer but find it difficult. My ex-Lady (we're still close) talks me through it, keeps me positive. It's an interesting (if conflicting) feeling for me: I'm so desperate to release yet, at the same time, I function better as a man by retaining. I agree with Ms. Amanda's assessment: no rules.
I dont think Ms Amanda's quote related to there being no rules but more likely that there would be No Release I believe.
No no no, I meant there are no rules. You and your partner (If you have one) are free to make all your own rules around D&S, FLR, T&D etc etc. It's entirely up to you how you wish to experience, play, practice or live it.
Many thanks and great feedback on this thread..........would love to hear from some younger men too - let's keep it going please!