She rolled a 10,longest yet.

What was your longest before that? What kind of device are you wearing? I remember the first time I went 1 week, that was a big milestone moment. Good luck with this new challenge.

 

I started with a knock off model of the CB's made of soft silicone. It was a nice introduction to chastity device at a low cost, however it wasn't great for long term wear. I kept getting raw spots that would turn to sores. It was also hard to keep clean. My custom stainless model now I wear for two weeks at a crack and then get let out for a shave and right back in with no problems.

In regards to the feeling bad, I totally get that. My wife was the same way. You're on the right track by making a game of it. Make it fun and she will enjoy participating. Remind her she isn't being mean if she plays by the rules. It's all up to the dice after all.

 

It takes time for them to believe you want to be denied. My wife is pretty accustomed to it now and she doesn't like how I behave when I'm unlocked. She really doesn't like how I behave after a full orgasm. Just remember, be careful what you wish for.

 

I agree that wifes/G/F's/potential K/H-ers rarely understand at first if you're really serious about letting/hoping/PLEADing that they keep you from playing with your favorite toy for real. They've all been raised and experienced the idea that because he has a dick, he wants/demands to cum.
Ms K/H took a while to understand that I was serious when I wanted her to decide when or if. I played her game at first, which was not believing that I wanted her to decide. She eventually learned and accepted it.
Welcome to 10 days without an orgasm or freedom. I hope/hate that you might become addicted to it. Just imagine when she says the heck with the dice, I'll decide. ;p

 

Playing a game with your lockup is always exciting. Your hoping for a low number but also for a high number. It is difficult for your spouse to understand that you don't want to have frequent Orgasms and you want to be denied. Be careful what you wish for because women can go a long time without allowing you an Orgasm as long as she's getting what she wants you could be waiting a long time.

Another advantage of using a dice or cards is it takes the responsibility off of your spouse. " the Dice said 11 days so suck it up " we use cards more often than dice with each suit being something else and the number an amount of time. Have Fun because that's what life should be all about

 

Do you add or multiply the two dice?

I've been thinking generally about the best way of playing dice or card games and it seems to me that a more frequent game at longer odds would be much more frustrating than shorter odds at less frequent intervals, as there will be many more failures for a similar number of outcomes.

Interesting difference between playing for length of next lockup time, which implies a certain release, and playing odds for instant release with the probability that the current lockup will just continue.
The first will have one game for every release, and no game will end negatively (there will always be a release date),
the second will have many disappointments with only the occasional success.

Using two dice seems a very simple thing at first, but the exact method used can have very different results.
Advanced players using three dice or periods of weeks or months instead of days should be very good at calculating the expected odds before committing to such games.

 

We started my denial time by throwing dice, first 2 then 3, I wouldn't see, but she would write the date on a piece of paper and put in an unsealed envelope, and lay it on the counter top. I would never look.

 

This is a spinning wheel that determines the time my wife liked to use.
(http://wheeldecide.com/index.php?c1...+week&c6=2+weeks&c7=3+weeks&c8=5+weeks&time=5}

 

Great to see you (both) are respecting the rolled dices, it will only get better when you stop rolling the dices and let her decide how she sees fit, but please bear in mind it will be a lot longer than the outcome of two dices.

I wish you both good luck in this wonderful journey,

 

OK, I understand completely.. it will all work out; you'll see!
Good luck.

 

I just had an idea for a game to determine lockup. How about playing a game of Backgammon? Use the doubling cube, with the original bet being a one day lock up vs immediate sex. That would give a possible lock time of up to 128 days, if all the doubles were used! Of course, equal skill at the game would be required.

 

Our dice game also introduces the paddle. If either of us roll doubles through out he game, it is whacks for me totaling the number on both dice with the tool of my Queen's choice. It is a three part game that can last for quite a while with a lot of rolls. The third part of the game will set a minute lockup period.

 

have her roll 2 dice then one dice. multiply the two.. for number of days denied
then in few months step it up to just rolling two dice... for number of weeks denied
it will soon get interesting