I've been wearing my cage mostly at night before going to bed. In the 8 days i've had it, i was only able to fall asleep twice. It feels comfortable enough but I think that is the issue "it feels". So I've had trouble falling asleep. Going to keep at it. One other thing I've done is check out porn and gotten myself hard while in locked up. Wow, what a feeling. I couldn't imagine not being able to get out and relieve myself. After taking the cage off, my erections have been amazing!
Still can't fall asleep, disappointed but still trying. Switched to a smaller ring. Started noticing my scrotum loosing up and had one testical slip out. The smaller ring seems more comfortable and went on easier than I expected.
I think nobody responded to this as it doesn't really go anywhere with regards to chastity. The vast majority of us are not wearing a device looking at porn to turn us on, we are wearing a device as part of a chastity pact, either with ourselves or with a mistress. I did read it when you originally posted, I just didn't have anything to add. With regards to wearing a device at night it took me a few months to get used to it. Now I sleep through the night undisturbed, unless my Mistress gives me a lot of stimulation before I go to bed. If she does that I still get woken up with an over active attempt at an erection.
I understand what you're saying. Again these were simply some observations. My intent wasn't to lock myself up and watch porn. But I wanted to experience what it was like to become aroused while in Chastity. That was all. Thanks for replying, I do appreciate feedback.
I think we posted at the same time as your new post appeared after I hit send. As you reposted your original entry I thought that you were wondering why no one had said anything after that initial post. Don't stop writing observations, these journals become an excellent way to communicate with other members of the mansion and get support and help when you need it. Which, if your experience is anything like most of us, you will!
Yes, I began to add to my original post and messed up. Came back later and saw that I just reposted the original. So that was a noob error on my part.
Last night I was able to fall asleep locked up. I slept for about 2 hours before being awaken by my erection. I thought about unlocking myself but it wasn't terrible and it seemed like it was going away. I was able to fall back asleep. At 4:30am I was awaken again. This time I was experiencing a powerful erection. My cock was straining and twitching to get out. It was torture. There was no ignoring this I wasn't going to able to get back to sleep. I decided to unlock myself. My erection was extremely hard and a somewhat painful. I shuddered at the thought of a keyholder having the keys. I would certainly have been begging for release. And I'm thinking I would have not been . I'm guessing cold shower or pouring ice water would have been needed. I definitely learned how powerful control a keyholder could have over me.
The actual cure for a nighttime erection is actually surprisingly easy. Have a pee. The erection will go down immediately. I had to do this nightly for a few months but now it is very rare that I get woken up.
I recall that I didn't have the urge go at that moment. I was browsing other sites and saw the same advice so will make sure to try that. I had a really unusual thing happen last night while locked up. I was viewing some porn and turned on and started to play with my nipple. I had listened to hypnosis files on nipple orgasms. I never achieved an orgasm from just playing with my nipples but I did last night! So that was amazing! I expected to see a mess down there but there was no cum! It felt like I ejaculated. But other than pre cum, nothing. Is this common? It was the first time orgasming while locked up.
That hasn't ever happened to me but I do know from empirical evidence that I now get more pleasure when my Wife stimulates my bottom or nipples than when she plays with my penis. Weird! I had an orgasm (including mess) from just pressing the area underneath my balls between my legs. No masturbation was applied as I was still locked up in my device. That was quite an experience.
It's a dilemma. It seems like I'm more able to fall asleep locked up but wake up at least twice each night. I haven't brought myself to wear it to work, so I put it on when i get home or before bed but disrupted sleep is not healthy. I'll keep at it for a little longer with the hope that I'll be able to get 6-7 hrs of uninterrupted sleep.