Hey guys, I am very happy and want to share it with you. Maybe you remembered that my wife told me that we are definitely in an „never inside“ relationship now. The days since than have been very hard for me cause I now how strict she is and how powerfull she stays when she announced something. Yesterday my wife told me that she has a easter-present for me. She told me that she feels much more sexually free than already been the last years now that she killed my hope of ever feel her vagina again with the penis. This complete liberation changed her mind related to sexuality with me. As I told you before my wife cuted me of from very much sexual related things, not only intercourse. I was rarely allowed to see her completly naked, rarely allowed to lick her and when I was allowed than it was mostly her ass. So for me it‘s something special and still wonderfull to see my beautiful wife naked and have sexual related stuff with her. Now on eastern she will allow me to lick her vagina again after long time. I can‘t wait cause even if I know that the chances that she also allows me to orgasm are nearly 0, I would at least be happy and thankfull to service her again with my tounge. I remember her taste is so wonderful and I love when she comes in my face. She told me I have to learn to focus even more on her orgasms in the future. Also she told me some rules when I lick her: - I am always have to wear a bra / bralette / babydoll - I am not allowed to wear panties when doing it and the will change my cage for a transparent one, cause she will see the penis suffer in it’s cage while I lick her - I have to neel, not allowed on the same stage as my wife - I have to wear a collar with a leash on it which she holds in her hand - I am blindfolded just before I am allowed to pull down her panties - I had to start from her feet and very slowly „climb“ to her vagina - She likes it very soft and I always have to do it exactly how she demands she told me it will only be the beginng, she could imagine to let me clother to her again no that she is finaly completly save of the penis. I am looking forward to it. Every bad thing also have something positive. Are you allowed to please your wife regularly and do you have any rules?
Would be my dream to be told all those rules on condition to licking her vagina. I love the bra / bralette / babydoll rule. Would make you more feminine and change your mindset and turn the focus on her. She really knows what she is doing with you. Jealous
My wife has also rules for me when licking her vagina. I cannot have sharp beard. I have to kiss and lick her legs near vagina. Than smell the vagina, than start licking gently.
Went through two weeksof this, all dressed and cafed. Sadly she lost interest Any ideas how to restarrt this fire?
Best way to create intimacy for our relationship is to have honest communication. Sharing resentments etc.
Taking the decision of denying any kind of vagina stimulation created the right mindset that everything is related just to her pleasure and not yours. Once she felt free about the penis and you got the correct mindset then she gave you her vagina as a gift. The strategy of the radical decision and then the balance in between is an excellent strategy from my perspective.
If you don't know the difference between a vagina and a vulva, a Mistress shouldn't let you anywhere near her body. Sorry, a major pet peeve of mine. Please use appropriate terminology, guys, and especially submissives. On another forum some women are still complaining that men cannot find their clitoris, and this is a contributing factor. Or do you have an exceptionally long tongue? ;-)
The irony here is that the Latin origins of vagina translates as sheath, which is an outer covering, and vulva in early Latin literaly ment womb, the internal portion of female genitalia.
I just dont understand the elaborate rules.. my wife likes being served orally… no stubs on my face.. and no hands carressing her as it is purely the job of my tongue to her pussy…bra, collars and stuffs? Nah.. just nude and kneeling… blindfolded? Never.. in fact she wants me to see her being pleasured and enjoying the moment of what my dick should have been doing… Ok, maybe some rules.
My wife's call. What she wants, she gets. What she doesn't want, doesn't happen. Her agenda. Not mine.
I'm almost a "fluffer" for my wife .......Laid on her back, legs apart she likes me to use my tongue on her pussy and get her excited and wet, Then she'll push me away and use her wand on her pussy till she orgasms, sometimes as a reward for fluffing her pussy she will roll over on to her front, legs wide and she'll pull her ass cheeks apart exposing her ass hole and ask me if i'd like to fluff her ass too....i always say yesssss! .....i love the taste and smell of her pussy and ass and she loves me to tongue fuck her ass after an orgasm, she says it prolongs her throbbing sensation from the wand orgasm......it also makes me hard in my cage and wanting to orgasm myself, but it's not often she lets me out to orgasm , so frustrating, but i love it.