Desperate for advice - Chastity choices

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    Hi everyone,

    I know this has been discussed and may be the biggest question in the whole of chastity, but. I really don't know which device to purchase. When i'm flaccid I am:

    4.5cm in diameter
    10cm long

    From my searching I can't seem to find anything that fits. The curve (what I think is the biggest?) looks like it'll be too narrow? Or is suppose to be a tight fit like that?

    Any advice would be amazing.

    Many thanks in advance,
    Obedientboy
     
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    I would be willing to 'upgrade' to a neosteel if that is required.
     
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    I am fairly large when soft and quit a grower, I found that Mature Metal will make any size you want. Make sure you don't get it made to larg as you want to feel constrained when you are soft
     
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    Thanks for the suggestion! They'll actually make one in my size... When measuring should I give them my exact measurements when flaccid? Which model did you go for?
     
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    I have a made to measure belt from Steelworxx in Germany and my length is the same as yours - assuming you are measuring from where the cockring would be.

    Dietmar suggested i should get 8.5cm but we went for 9cm and it contains me nicely but, of course, erections are going nowhere :p

    The beauty of these is that they are just enough and therefore very discreet under your trousers.

    Hope this helps

    Carrie
     
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    obedientboy,

    maturemetal.com has pictures of various devices, and instructions for measurement. He's been an excellent resource for many in chastity circles lately.

    mikecb
     
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    A Neo is definitely a good choice but you should consider that a full belt made by measure is quite expensive. If you are serious about chastity it is o.k. but if it is just to play with from time to time so I always recommend to go for a cheaper model. Getting used to a full belt takes some time, no matter what the brand is.
    Before buying such a belt you should have a good talk with your Mistress and try to define what you are expecting from chastity and what you expect it can do for Y/you both.

    Hugs, maid katrin
     
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