I wonder if anybody else can share my experience with this? Being relatively new to being locked up (from 2019 but only last year for long lengths of time) I am wondering if my attitude towards other men is shared here. My wife introduced a fun “game” with chastity. Whilst we are out and about and I am locked, she’ll make a judgement about other men and whether she thinks they are locked or not. When she says “no, I doubt it, not him”, he’ll usually be muscular and stereotypically “alpha”. I’ve now found myself becoming relatively submissive towards the kind of men she is picking out. I don’t consider myself as heteroflexible or bi, so this is a new experience for me.
With my wife since a while I give her my thought on over men and if I think she can have sex with her. She gave me her opinion. With time I can judge if a male is a good one for her for sex and friendship. rarely miss the point. usually she let me to have sex with him (as passive like a woman) before she goes with him. Whe has stopped it since my daugter is born and get bigger but I still talk about men we met to her and her to me. She still look, not if they are caged but if they are sexy enough for her.