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    I'm curious who here is able to achieve an orgasm whilst flaccid. I understand that whilst being milked there is a good chance you remain flaccid, also whilst in chastity, technically you don't have an erection. I'm referring to uncaged full orgasm without an erection.
     
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    I orgasm while flaccid twice a day. The anal vibrator works wonders as a milking tool. The cum just seeps out of me in a steady stream.
     
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    As a product of getting older, and possible connections to a misspent youth, I have very rare erections. All of my orgasms these days are while flaccid. I still am caged, because flaccid or not I can still achieve orgasm with a little bit more effort than before.
     
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    I've leaked a little from anal stimulation. My wife and I are practising more and more because I'm sure i can achieve a full orgasm eventually and I am always flaccid when it happens. I love the idea of orgasming whilst flaccid. Any tips with the anal stimulation?
     
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    So if you are let out of the cage to orgasm, do you do so whilst flaccid? Or are you not allowed to orgasm when out of the cage?
     
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    I find this idea really attractive and I'm not exactly sure why.
    Perhaps because a flaccid orgasm is not threatening.
    If a man cannot achieve erection then surely he ceases to become a threat in many ways.
    He would be less able to rape or take advantage sexually.
    If a male can only achieve orgasm in a flaccid state then there would need to be premeditated intervention in order for him to impregnate. Which would likely be medical and would require third party consent.


    I think also, along with the concept of male chastity that this sort of thing will appeal more and more to our collective unconcious since humanity is now aware that it's own procreation has become a threat.
     
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    I agree completely with Mascara^Snake.

    My last orgasm was achieved without an erection. It had been 2 months since my last cum, and I was so excited that I ejaculated before I could become erect, in maybe 20 seconds after I started. When I started to jerk off, I knew right away that it was going to be a fast one, and I very briefly considered holding back until I could get hard. Then, knowing I don't deserve to have erections anyway, I went ahead and finished, remaining completely flaccid from beginning to end.

    It was interesting, and I'm hoping it will be a regular occurrence from now on. My wife wants me impotent anyway, so it would be a good thing.
     
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    Agree completely with Mascara. A flaccid male is sexually harmless, literally impotent. The growing emasculation of men is a positive trend that I support wholeheartedly.
     
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    I have never really made any connection between male chastity and threat only that a male being kept in a locked state does almost totally remove the threat of infidelity.


    Alas it is the sections of humanity that need to be aware or at least need to learn to stop ignoring that fact that its an unreasonable level of procreation that is perhaps our greatest threat. Individuals need to becoming parents to on average less than 0.5 of a child and this needs to be maintained for a few generations. How we are going to encourage that is another topic and probably best discussed elsewhere.
     
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    Your second question first. I am SOMETIMES allowed to orgasm out of the cage, tho very seldom.
    The first...I always orgasm whilst flaccid now. My k/h thinks it's cute.
     
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    Wow, really interesting takes on the topic. None of which I have thought about before, though i enjoy the point of view. Our reasoning for it, is I find anything emasculating my wife does to me exciting, and she enjoys doing anything emasculating and humiliating to me. I think it's less of a turn on for her, and more just amusement. An erection I think of as very masculine so Cummings whilst flaccid for my is quite emasculating. It re-emphasise the sissy position in the relationship. When I'm leaking alot for anal stimulation my wife emasculate me even more verbally. Things about me being a sissy because she can tell I enjoy being pegged in the ass, and how my cock knows it belongs to a sissy because it doesn't even get hard to cum. It doesn't help that the faster she goes, the more I moan (involuntarily).
     
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    oddly this just recently happened to me........not the orgasm part but remaining flaccid while still very aroused......I believe with permission orgasm might have been possible but the sweet part was the way my Mistress seemed to prefer the softer version of my arousal
     
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    jack and I have experimented with forced impotence. It does take a long time to get to the flaccid orgasm state, but we have achieved it a number of times. It helps if you target a ruined cum as well. Ideally, through continual programming this way, he will eventually be completely impotent, but retaining his sexual desires. Toys and cuckolding sustain me anyway, so this is about our fun and D/s dynamic.
     
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    Care to elaborate on the esperimentation? I'm very intrigued :) your whole post seems exciting
     
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    It's really down to reconditioning the male mind to achieve orgasm while soft. It takes time and patience. The idea is to de-sensitise the brain to think it needs an erect cock to ejaculate.
     
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    I'm older and for the last couple of years I have not had and erection, so all my orgasms were without an erection. Now I take Viagra every 3 days, but now, I'm not allowed to have and orgasm.
     
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    This is a very interesting thread. It's something I am interested in too. I find the idea of my cock being completely useless quite arousing, oddly.
    How is it possible to condition yourself?
     
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    Medication has made my cock permanently limp but still was able to have an orgasm, though it took an hour or so of using my hand. My wife finally allowed me to come via anal stimulation, which is much more efficient and pleasurable.
     
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    If achieved effectively, it makes for excellent humiliation play and enhances the Female Power perspective. So, is it possible? It is, but takes a lot of effort to rewire the male brain to achieve effective flaccid orgasm. In essence, a new neural pathway needs to be developed via programming/conditioning the male brain to effect release without erection. This is not something that can be achieved overnight. A good place to start is to blindfold the subject and order it to take up the 'all fours' position. Allowing its organ to flop freely with its legs open, proceed to handled the organ and apply a milking motion, but only for short periods. In the beginning the organ will become erect, I suggest a bag of frozen peas to bring it back to flaccid status, then start again. Repeat as often as necessary, ensuring that as soon as an erection is noted, cease actions and apply cold compress to the organ.
     
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    I find this thread really interesting, I would love to have an orgasm and still be limp.....I don't want to orgasm again as a man.....using his hands like an animal......it turns me off. Has anyone had any success with Hands Free Orgasm audio?
    Mandynjack seems to have a good grasp of what we want!
     
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    Indeed. Humiliation is at the core of being deprived of one's manhood and it requires constant reinforcement. My wife continually reminds me of how often men fucked my ass and how much I admitted I loved it, so she's only giving me what I crave and that I should be eternally grateful to her. Which, of course, I am.
     
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    Couldn't have expressed it better, agree word by word.
    Indeed this sort of thing will happen more and more, one of the reasons is the wide spread in our drinking waters and oceans of the synthesized female hormones, men more and more will be losing its ability to get hard and penises will be then used only for peeing, impregnation of women will be only by medical intervention.
     
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    Agree with Joan. My penis now is used only for tinkling while sitting down. I don't miss erections in the least.
     
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    I achieved a flaccid orgasm the other night with the use of a large prostate vibrator by my KH. I have difficulties achieving erections with anal play and in this case the orgasm was so quickly extracted that my body did not have time to react. Hoping to achieve the same in cage.
     
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    Agreed Joan, the environment will certainly have an influence on male erection performance in the future. In the mean time, jack and I will continue to experiment with my programme of forced impotence programming. I know this may well sound abhorent to some, but I enjoy it, jack is mine do as I please with and its because i can.
     
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