Isn't it amazing how a few simple words from your wife can keep you up all night We were fooling around me locked as always and she suddenly looked at me in a serious way and said" idon't think you ever need an orgsm do you ithink we will stick with the odd ruined one and you will get a very short supervised wash once a week from now on " Well I was a bit shocked and turned on and worried .....the whole range of emotions Well I was hard most of the night couldn't stop thinking about what she had said hence little sleep as it is mildly uncomfortable when I try and get hard ...no sleep for me Still a bit concerned over my wife's increasing love a of flr and her strength in how strict she has become I think this is great lol
Don't worry, gary170! If you have good communication, an FLR is a wonderful way to live! I love not having to make all those decisions and worry only about serving Her!
Mmmm I too have become worried about the lack of answers to my, when are we gojng to have sex questions. She's just said, it's her business.
It's a funny lifestyle to get into we want to be denied then over time the wife begins to really enjoy it and before you know it it's become not a game any more but reality half of me is excited half of me wondering what I have gotten myself into As time goes by I become more and more submisive and my wife more dominant it funny how things turn out lol
The roller coaster of thoughts, emotions, worries, panic, acceptance, wonder, questions and on and on and on. Just as the roller coaster is a wild and crazy ride it does eventually calm down. Try to enjoy the ride!
By calm down I mean that you do eventually get more used to the idea. Acceptance is a wonderful experience. My Wife said the same thing to me, that I don't need orgasms. That doesn't mean I won't ever get one, just that they are going to be rare and on her terms.
I was thinking those very thoughts of late. There was an initial game side to locking me up in chastity. We or should I say my wife now feels it is the norm to have me locked up. Three months no release at all. I am driven mad with frustration this week, sometimes the frustration really seems to peak. The more it peaks, the more I mention it to my wife, the longer I get locked up.
It seems once your wife gets control of your orgasms, the frequency of those releases lengthens. I've only been locked since the 11th March and what started as locked only at night now includes weekends. My wife has already told me she regretted allowing my an orgasm early on in our chastity journey and after 10 days. She's not made that mistake again. 23 days last one, next, who knows, it's day 15 now so maybe next weekend but as she's said she intends to beat my last 23 duration, so it present be next weekend. I'm happy. It's what I always wanted and she is in control.
It seems that woman take a long time to find the power that chastity has but once they see what they are gaining they start to run with it.