Default setting when given a choice.

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Mash2214, Feb 1, 2019.

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If Given a Choice. What is your Default

Poll closed Apr 2, 2019.

  1. You stay locked

    58 vote(s)
    71.6%

  2. Unlock periodically and play with self very little

    10 vote(s)
    12.3%

  3. Unlock and leave it off but don’t play with yourself.

    6 vote(s)
    7.4%

  4. Unlock and have a “Free For All “ cumming at will

    10 vote(s)
    12.3%
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  1. Mash2214
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    Mash2214 Locked today, tomorrow, forever

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    #1 Mash2214, Feb 1, 2019
    My Mistress is leaving me at home by myself for a week and before she left she handed me the key to my Chastity cage and said. “Do what ever you want “.

    Alone for a week with the key and permission
    What would you do? Or in other words What’s Your Default setting ?
     
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    #2 boisub, Feb 1, 2019
    If your Mistress has given you the gift of locking you, why would you not continue getting the benefit of it while she’s gone?

    To me it would be like her saying “you’re free to not breathe as much as you want while I’m gone.”
     
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    #3 Susanstoy91, Feb 1, 2019
    Easy...I would stay locked. It would be like cheating or lying to her. :lock:
     
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    #4 DoesasTold, Feb 1, 2019
    Spank it at will for the first 3 days and use the remaining 2 of the remaining 4 to edge yourself to oblivion! Cage on for the final 2 days to ensure you are back in full horned up sun mode. I would think if she gave you the key and her blessing you are in the clear.

    Or it could be a trap and you just stay locked and keep your mind at ease because you’ve passed the test!
     
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    #5 EbonyToeAddict, Feb 1, 2019
    What feels right to you @Mash2214? I think I would stay locked.
     
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    #6 chastesoon, Feb 1, 2019
    If I were in your shoes, or cage, I would stay locked to show her how much I love and respect her!
    I am sure she will reward you somehow for your devotion!
     
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    #7 Fuhr84, Feb 1, 2019
    I’d unlock and have as many orgasms as I could
     
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    #8 Passporter, Feb 1, 2019
    I would stay locked in that situation. I’m tempted enough when given freedom, and I alway feel I don’t ‘hit my stride’ until like a week in. I wouldn’t want to start that process over. I like who I am locked better than who I am unlocked.
     
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    #9 iome343, Feb 1, 2019
    Stay locked. Your Miss gives you permission of doing what do you prefer. But you like do what she likes and what she orders to you.

    So keep the key in a safe place andwait her return
     
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    #10 Rider9, Feb 1, 2019
    My first thought is stay locked. Things between my legs are her property. She can play with them, she can abuse them...
    So yes, vote is for stay locked and hands off...

    But then... She is not there... You have the key... Temptation can be strong.
     
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    #11 Mash2214, Feb 1, 2019
    Interesting to read the different responses and the reason for them.
    When she drove away I went and placed the key on her Jewelery box. “No Pun Intended”. I plan on leaving it their till she comes home and being faithful to my promise to her that I won’t play with her property unless she specifically tells me to. I’ll just wait and see what happens when she comes home.
     
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    #12 Andylocked, Feb 1, 2019
    I think I would have sneaked the key into her handbag when she wasn’t looking. The temptation for me would probably be too much - I know how rubbish I am!! Haha!!
    As soon as she was at her destination, you could tell her to check her bag... I’d be curious as to her reaction!!
     
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    #13 Mash2214, Feb 1, 2019
    I agree that would have been easier. I didn’t have that chance. I don’t anticipate any problems staying locked.
     
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    #14 b_quark, Feb 1, 2019
    It's funny because whenever my wife has left with the kids for a week she has always locked me up. Even if I hadn't been locked for a while before. She knows all too well that if I'm by myself that long I'll rub my little thing raw, and she loves that it tortures me to be locked in that case.

    Honestly, the thing I most look forward to when I'm by myself is crossdressing. I basically live en femme for a whole week! It's absolutely perfect. In fact, even though she doesn't like to see me dressed, she knows I'm doing it and teases and humiliates me for it.
     
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    #15 Slutguy1, Feb 1, 2019
    Not sure how others would have reacted to that, I don't have a KH but if I did I think I would be worried about that statement. It implies she no longer cares if you remind in chastity or not.
     
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    #16 Mash2214, Feb 1, 2019
    I never looked at it that way. Thanks for your view point. I don’t believe that is the case here but in other relationships It could definitely be taken that way. Since she’ll be gone for a week having access to a key could be necessary for other reasons.
    Miss Shelly loves to play games with my mind teasing me and keeping me guessing this to me is just another one of her games. Our commitment to this lifestyle is concrete for me to be unlocked for a week totally goes against that. I greatly appreciate your comment but I’ll stay locked and play along with her game because I know our Chastity relationship isn’t over.
     
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    #17 Slutguy1, Feb 1, 2019
    It's not the leaving of the key with you that concerned me, it's what she said. Had she have said "I'm leaving you a key for emergencies only" then that would be very different. Saying "Do whatever you want" rings alarm bells for me. However, hopefully I'm reading it wrong and everything works out for you.
     
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    #18 Mash2214, Feb 1, 2019
    Thanks for your concerns. I’ll be posting update in my blog( On Display II )
    I don’t want to do it here because that not the purpose of the poll.
    The purpose was to see what others would do under the same situation.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #19 Nicoftime, Feb 1, 2019
    I would do exactly as I was told, and whatever I want would probably entail rubbing myself until it was about to fall off. Left to my own, that’s what I would do. I don’t lock up because I don’t like orgasms or touching it, I lock up because I like giving her control. If she handed the control back to me for a week, I know exactly how I would spend my freedom. I doubt I ever have to worry about my freedom again though.
     
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    #20 Mash2214, Feb 1, 2019
    That power to take matters into our own hands is incredibly strong. But what’s stronger to masturbate or to serve? I think I need to start another thread. Thanks friend
     
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    #21 Chaste J., Feb 1, 2019
    No chance of that in the Chaste household! Mrs Chaste is visiting our daughter this weekend. She won't be home until Sunday evening. She is leaving the "key to me" behind though. Safely locked in her keysafe, screwed to the wall in the walk in cupboard! So near yet so far!
     
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    #22 iome343, Feb 1, 2019
    Oh no, Miss Shelley gives hime the key: this is her will!
    Mash must not give the key back in her handbag
     
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    #23 Andylocked, Feb 1, 2019
    Good point.... I have lots to learn!! :-(
     
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    #24 LockedGreg, Feb 1, 2019
    I'm unlocked about 95% of the time anyway, so a totally different situation, but I'd say unlock so you can be comfortable and give everything a good cleaning. Obviously, don't masturbate and lock back up so you're ready to go when she returns.
     
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    #25 Mash2214, Feb 9, 2019
    My Lovely Mistress has returned from her Vacation and I was 95% Locked. I personally didn’t remove my cage but Miss Shelly arranged for a close friend to come over and receive a massage. She than removed my cage and teased me for awhile before locking me in my cage with the urethra tube. This was on last Sunday.

    The results of the poll were very interesting over 70% for staying locked. I guess I’m not the only one that’s adjusted to long term Lockup. Thanks to Everyone that responded.
     
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