Today is one year since my girlfriend and I have entered into the world of male chastity. We have purchased 3 silicone products over that time, and finally purchased a Mature Metal Queens Keep, which arrived on Monday. We put it on together and are going through a trial phase before going the next step. I have however, been in it since Monday evening. I/we did extensive measuring to ensure we had everything right. We also had a few emails back and forth with Mature metal about sizing. We were very comfortable with the measurement when ordering. When I put the device on, I notice I do not go all the way to the end. I do notice some bunching of my skin, and that the head (glans) gets caught up on the ring at the end of the device. I do not believe the sizing is wrong. We ordered a length of 2 1/2", 1 1/4" Diameter which is the diameter of my shaft though the glans is 1 3/8". We also got the spike strip and high security screw. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions they can offer up for putting the device on?
i aint got a queens keep but i uses a cotton bud or what you calls a q- tip to push it in, mine is small so it go in easy.
*nods* The boys I've had in the past liked baby oil, mineral oil or silicone lube, but they all had non-custom cages. simpletwistfate has a QK. he doesn't like the slippery lubes (I just had him try some silicone ones), but prefers just a little bit of a water-based lube that will dry in addition to using the swabs. M
I don't like using lubes to get into my QK. My solution is as others have suggested, use a q-tip/cotton swab between the bars of the QK to push the bunched up skin/head of the penis forward. Do it a time or two and you will find it takes no extra time and can make the initial time in a little easier from a comfort standpoint.
Thanks for the tips. The q tips are a help as well as the baby oil. We were using KY. Still a little short of where I should be. Seems like the forward ring is just a little to small for me to get the head to tip.
Have a pump bottle of hand lotion on the counter. A little dallop applied liberally around the head and glans, and it'll slide right in. Unlike lube (which stays messy), the lotion gets absorbed right in. A little dallop also works great after installing when applied where the ring is under the balls and the cage hits the balls. Comfortable as can be!
Thanks for the idea of hand lotion. Sadly, I think i had an undesired reaction to the baby oil. It seems like it clogged some pores and I had a few ingrown hairs develop and I have been out of the device for 9 days now waiting for the swelling and the infection to subside. Hopefully I will be back in tonight.
There is another baby oil product called Baby Oil Gel. I love it and it is now part of my daily routine to use it especially underneath on the base ball ring. The feeling is much more comfortable and helps prevent chaffing! Enjoy your QK! It was actually recommended by Mistress MM.