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- Gender:
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- Birthday:
- Aug 1, 1969 (Age: 54)
- Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
- Netherlands, Region Oss
Bob Spade
C4/D5 on the TomAllen-Rectrix scale, Male, 54, from Netherlands, Region Oss
Married Dec 29, 2020
- Bob Spade was last seen:
- Jul 16, 2023
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About
- Gender:
- Male
- Birthday:
- Aug 1, 1969 (Age: 54)
- Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
- Netherlands, Region Oss
- My key is held by:
- my Lady
- Your chastity role:
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- Submissive
- Chastity devices:
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Steel devices from Amazon and Ali
Holy Trainer the nub
The Vice
Red Chili Ibicella cage
My-Steel Comfort Active-style
I've been interested in BDSM from when I was small, although I didn't understand where it came from at that time.
Never had the strength to express it to the world as it was/is not accepted in my surrounding.
Read a lot about BDSM when I was young and created some home made toys. And bought some first devices.
Then I met my wife and decided to bury my feelings.
But feelings are something you can't bury nor deny.
My wife is a great person and I really don't want to hurt her (which I probably already do), but sex and talking about it is not her thing. Tried to introduce some card game to at least start some more discussion and work on it a while ago, but that didn't take off. Also the occasional tv shows on improving sex life doesn't resonate.
So lately I've started playing around on my own with chastity devices on the many business travels in the hope to be able to introduce the topic of chastity and FLR to my wife and provide her with things she will get out of it. Probably the wrong thinking and direction.
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End of 2019 I decided to come out of the closet with my wife and she reacted very positive.
We are now on and in this journey together. However she still remains somewhat vanilla she agreed to embark on this journey as my Lady.
I'm also visiting a pro-domme who is teaching and exploring my (sado)masochism.
I'm very interested to learn from others and their journeys.Interact
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