WannaLockCock

I would consider myself somewhat dominant for most aspects of my life. I have for years wanted to give up control (especially in the bedroom) to my wife or girlfriend. Unfortunately I know my wife wants no part in controlling me sexually or personally. I have been experimenting with self chastity for about a year and a half now.
I don’t know if I could be a totally submissive husband 24/7 but I would at least give it a try. I am a chronic masturbator. I love orgasming. Generally at least 2-3 times a day when possible. That being said, having my chastity cage on and knowing I can’t just take it out and relieve myself, gives me a thrill that just drives me crazy and frustrated. I feel the tension as my cock tries to expand in it’s cage most of the day. (I have only gone a full day twice because of the cheap and uncomfortable to wear cages I had)
I have ordered a Terrence ergo cage in a small size with a urethra insert and optional tube insert. I will update once I have it and have worn it some.