slimswitch
Last Activity:
Dec 10, 2023
Joined:
Nov 10, 2019 at 1:28 PM
Messages:
93
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98
Trophy Points:
28
Albums:
1
Photos:
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Local Time:
4:07 AM
Gender:
Male
Birthday:
Jan 1, 1971 (Age: 53)
Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
SF Bay Area, California

slimswitch

Active member, Male, 53, from SF Bay Area, California

Unlocked since 2021-02-11 Nov 9, 2021

slimswitch was last seen:
Dec 10, 2023
    1. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      There's a chance I'll be unlocked today and right now I'm really really hoping for it!
    2. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      I'd just like to say here, for the record, that right now I really, really, really, really, really, really, REALLY want to masturbate.
      Rectrix and njcuckold like this.
      1. njcuckold
        njcuckold
        Mmmm, I somehow enjoy edging myself, telling myself I am going stroke myself to a good thorough ejaculation. Whimpering and humping I tease myself and building myself right up to cumming over and over and then simply stop. My whole body tense , my balls unbelieving, I wait till I fully soften, dab a tissue to its dripping tip and then tuck him back into my trousers.
        Jun 4, 2020
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      2. slimswitch
        slimswitch
        I sometimes set aside time to frustrate myself, doing all the things I'd do if I was going to masturbate (eg looking at porn) except of course getting hard and cumming, instead stroking my cage and moaning in frustration!
        Jun 4, 2020
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    3. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      Today I'm not feeling shame at my tiny cage, or gratitude at being locked (much) or wild mood swings. Just overwhelming sexual frustration!
      njcuckold likes this.
    4. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      Now the longest I've ever been locked (9 days). Going up the wall with frustration. No release until at least 2020-06-07.
      1. njcuckold
        njcuckold
        Today is my day 20 without emissions.
        Jun 4, 2020
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    5. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      A week down, at least a week to go. Telling KH over chat about torturing myself dreaming about touching myself.
      njcuckold likes this.
    6. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      Min of 8 days locked remaining, but if I've shaved my chest and pits to her satisfaction, she'll extend it to 11. Shaved *very* carefully!
      njcuckold likes this.
      1. slimswitch
        slimswitch
        She granted me an extra two days locked in the end, very grateful!
        May 29, 2020
    7. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      God I feel so grateful right now.
    8. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      Locked again, at least until 2020-06-05 but who knows how much longer, no excuses to unlock with the lockdown!
      njcuckold likes this.
    9. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      Unlocked! And quite liking it thank you :-)
      John likes this.
      1. John
        John
        Are you able to handle it? Maybe don't cum and let her lock you up again ;-)
        Feb 19, 2020
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      2. slimswitch
        slimswitch
        I handled it fine thank you, and I enjoyed all the times I came between then and now :) but very glad to be locked again now!
        May 26, 2020
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    10. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      Got my instructions, cage on at 10am after gym. Have told KH about these forums. Longer update in journal!
    11. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      Woke up to a message: "put the cage on". Wonder how long I'll be caged?
    12. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      I've read chastity forums and fantasized many times - there's something very different and special about reading when locked!
      MissCarly likes this.
    13. slimswitch
      slimswitch
      Why does this feel so good? Agreed 48H, then after 24 extended to 72. Feeling so grateful.
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  • About

    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Jan 1, 1971 (Age: 53)
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    SF Bay Area, California
    Your chastity role:
    • Other - (Explain in "About You")
    Chastity devices:
    Chinese A273 short cage, CB2000, cup device
    Chastity resume:
    Not serious about it, but having fun!
    Short version: the wonderful partners I live with are happily very supportive of me sometimes being locked up on the orders of a lover who lives 5000 miles away!

    Long version:

    I've identified as polyamorous and kinky and bi for 30 years. I've been lucky to play with a lot of people and try a lot of kinky things - including dabbling in chastity play. I've been with my primary partner for nearly 20 years and I'm devoted to her, though due to her health we don't get up to much kinky fun now. But we've always had other partners, and today we live with another partner. I've been seeing the woman who is now my keyholder since late 2011, a sexy goth lady roughly my age; she bought a strap-on for our first date which was a great start. Very often our dates would be with her and a very beautiful person with whom we'd have every combination of three-way fun, and she's always strongly encouraged me to cross-dress, to an extent that it has at times shaded a little into a delicious forced feminization kink.

    At the start of 2016, I moved 5000 miles from our shared home town of London to Silicon Valley, saying a sad goodbye to my London lovers, though of course hoping to visit frequently; I've had much fun connecting with the kink scene here in the Bay Area. Near the end of 2019, I was looking at her FetLife page, and noticed an entry that said: "Curious about: chastity devices (giving)." Goodness me, I thought, and messaged her. It turned out that she had fantasized about attaching a leash to a chastity device at a fetish club. I had a visit to the UK planned, so I immediately ordered a short A273 with 45mm ring to try out, ready for the club.

    I was checking the post every day for it to arrive, and I put it on as soon as possible, and left for work - taking the key with me. But I knew immediately I wanted her to have control of when it was unlocked. After our first three-day experiment with it, we agreed that she could simply order me to put it on at any time, but that I'd make sure she knew about any dates I had planned so it was only me that was inconvenienced :) Unsurprisingly the UK visit has had to be postponed, but I've worn it around half-a-dozen times since then, the longest stretch being 15 days. It's a fantastic way for the two of us to connect across all this distance.

    When I put it on, the keys go in numbered evidence bags, which I show her before unlocking, to demonstrate that I've been good. In so far as it's possible given our long distance arrangement, I have no safeword; I am permitted to unlock for medical reasons, but otherwise it's up to her. There are various ways I could cheat (I could pick the lock) but I have sworn not to cheat, and outside of an emergency I don't think I could open the bags unlock without her permission if I tried.
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