El Guapo
Last Activity:
Mar 28, 2024 at 2:32 PM
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Jan 3, 2018 at 9:26 PM
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Local Time:
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Gender:
Male
Birthday:
Mar 9, 1965 (Age: 59)
Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
Estados Unidos

El Guapo

Ladies First., Male, 59, from Estados Unidos

Methinks 2024 will be a good year ... looking forward to being more active with my family here at CM. Dec 28, 2023

El Guapo was last seen:
Mar 28, 2024 at 2:32 PM
    1. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Having a great day today. Why? Because I want to - and we are about as happy as we let ourselves be.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        That's how you go 42+ years. you got the secrete! Who told you? lol
        Aug 26, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        a lot of folks contributed ... including you.
        Aug 27, 2018
    2. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Liked your email, you are a verified person. How do I become one. LOL. Can't believe you could be speechless. We share much on the things that are important to those we love. That includes friendship also!
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        @Allen1987 ... liked your email right back! you become certified or verified (they might be the same) when you believe that you are. so ... i think you are there already.
        Aug 28, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        I'm already there, where is that? Can I find me somewhere? I'm glad you found me, otherwise i might be somewhere else. Will give more verification soon.
        Aug 28, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        rest assured, you are off the spectrum. that is why i could find you ... its the only place i look for companionship.
        Aug 28, 2018
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    3. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Had some CM Permission troubles for a few days. Our omnipotent Goddess, L-u-c-y, fixed them (again) and I am back in business.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        As always to the rescue of us reverent beings of womenhood, Thank you again.
        Aug 18, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        I believe that woman is part of The Q Continuum.
        Aug 18, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Spock always talked about possibilities. Definitely part of the CM Continuum.
        Aug 18, 2018
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    4. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Back in town. Back online. Not ready to get back to work.
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        BTW welcome back to CM, missed you bud.;-)
        Aug 14, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        missed ya to, 87
        nice to be home again (home home & here home).
        missed many of the folks here.
        Aug 14, 2018
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      4. Breathe
        Breathe
        Welcome back to the fold.
        Aug 15, 2018
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    5. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Taking a week off. Mostly hang around town. Long weekend of camping. Leaving technology at home. I'll be offline but thinking of y'all.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        87 - what our Ladies give us is just as powerful a commitment as we give to them (just different). Their efforts are significant expenditures of energy - and I am tireless to thank Her for it.
        Aug 14, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Sometimes I wish we could do a Vulcan mind meld. Let them feel the feelings these wonderful women instill in us. It is very hard to show some feelings that drive us to please them. Their efforts are tireless sometimes, yet they never give up on us, talk about love.
        Aug 14, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        The VMM ... and love ... nods!
        Aug 14, 2018
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    6. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Finally slowing down at work - some room to breath. This place is getting me out more because of some great threads & contributions lately.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        I found out breathing room is a good thing. Didn't realize where my head was until we got here. Her work is always on Her mind, and only away does it clear. I do feel like a crazy kid. I feel like we just met and everything is new. Why don't you two get away for a few days. Take a break from the rat race.
        Aug 6, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        i get the mind always on work - mine too.
        some time away - i am taking a week off & we are gonna get away for a long weekend. status update tomorrow.
        Aug 6, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Hey. don't forget the grill. Just focus on her, forget work for now. What a day. still processing. When I figure out what happened I'll fill you in.;-)
        Aug 6, 2018
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    7. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hi my friend. She went out for a while. I going to prepare dinner. Of course one grill came with me. Baked potato, steamed carrots and of course tenderloin steak. She locked my collar before She left, that means She loves me. This last year has been a blur and now processing. Oh wow, I can almost think. Catch you all later, maybe.☺
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        "She locked the collar on before She left, that means she loves me ... "

        I'd be all smiles & my eyes would be fluttering all through grilling supper!

        Sounds de-licious by the way - love to say we'll be right over!
        Aug 6, 2018
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        When She locks the collar She is thinking about what's to come. She is letting me know I am on Her mind and She has plans. She says it inspires Her. And the way She looks at me..... BTW Probably not a good time to come over lol.
        Aug 6, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        i like that - i mean really like that.
        ... the meaning of 'having plans' & inspiration.
        ... of course - best to stay out of the way.
        Aug 6, 2018
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    8. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      One day at a time.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Thank you Spock87 :)
        Jul 23, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Not exactly logical, but that works. Oh by the way you have a multi-legged creature on your shoulder, let me help.
        Jul 23, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Logical or not - everything is alright :)
        Jul 24, 2018
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    9. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      been in a funk for a few days. not feeling outgoing. dont take it personal like, just taking some space.
      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        yes, 87 ... exactly!
        its all work - busy beyond all git out right now!!
        milady and i have some time together planned ... get-aways this weekend & almost a week in early august.
        Jul 4, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        such a wonderful coast up there ... however, it lacks all the petrochemicals we have on our coastline.
        Jul 4, 2018
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    10. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Profile is fixed - didn't realize how much I miss you gals/guys when I cant interact. The great L-u-c-y was able to fix this!
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        I have near proof @L-u-c-y never sleeps.
        And I am pretty sure she can divide by zero too.
        Jun 14, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Getting together someday would make me smile.
        Matter and antimatter ... regardless.
        Jun 15, 2018
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    11. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Regrouping ... Round 1 was tougher than I thought. I have never been a quitter so just need to rethink some of this. Round 2 soon.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        @Panda2010 ... Great to see you - missed your being around.
        May 12, 2018
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      3. Panda2010
        Panda2010
        How is regrouping going?
        Jun 1, 2018
      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Two main hurdles:
        1. I just cant seem to survive the night. I hydrate a lot and usually pee 1 or 2 times per night. Its not very pleasant to wake up with that need. If all I felt was the pressure, fine, but ... thats not what wakes me up.
        2. Lori's are heavy!
        Jun 1, 2018
    12. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Monday's 'Fitting' was anticlimactic :(
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      2. Panda2010
        Panda2010
        Good to hear that you have been able to get it on and it is comfortable. I found a heat pack also helps to relax the skin on your sac so you can pull more skin through (particularly if your sac is naturally a bit tight).

        You will get the hang of it ;-)
        Apr 27, 2018
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      3. Breathe
        Breathe
        So sweet watching you boys encouraging each other. :)
        Apr 27, 2018
      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Dont stuff. Best ball forward. Heat pack. Days before nights. Getting the 'hang' of it. Not showing me. Prison. Encouragement. "Comin' out from 'round the world - are you ready for a brand new beat?" [sorry, i'm a musician]. Love. Y'all are the best!
        Apr 27, 2018
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    13. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Update from Ms. Lori: Your 2A has shipped.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        @Breathe 'bout time: SHEESH!
        @Allen1987 bet you can't wait: I CAN'T!!

        We are out of town this weekend so Monday will be 'the fitting'.

        Did I mention I have been having 'prison' dreams? Waking up in the middle of the night in a sweaty panic! Hands reluctant to explore the validity of the dream.
        Apr 20, 2018
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      3. Panda2010
        Panda2010
        The wait is almost over. And soon prison for you. Join the club lol
        Apr 24, 2018
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      4. Panda2010
        Panda2010
        Getting close now. Be careful what you wished for lol
        FFS I hope it fits snugly for you after all this time (I know there were careful measurements to start with). Good luck. Enjoy.
        Apr 26, 2018
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    14. Strict Sir
      Strict Sir
      Welcome!
      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Thanks - I have found a home here!
        Feb 3, 2018
    15. Breathe
      Breathe
      Welcome to the Mansion. :) I hope you enjoy your stay.
      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        How did I miss this @Breathe !!! Good thing we have had other wonderful discussions! I would not ignore you on purpose!
        Jan 30, 2018
      2. Breathe
        Breathe
        Lots of lovely, shiny distractions here in the Mansion. ;)
        Jan 31, 2018
      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Like Magpies ... we go for the shiny distractions :)
        Jan 31, 2018
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  • About

    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Mar 9, 1965 (Age: 59)
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Estados Unidos
    Your chastity role:
    • Submissive
    • Other - (Explain in "About You")
    Chastity devices:
    Lori's 2A, 8C, 7X
    Chastity resume:
    Three+ decades of honor system TND / chastity. Four+ years in the Lori's.
    Brought into the TND world during college.
    Steeped deeply in Orgasm Denial, Servitude in a cheerful manner & constantly wearing her panties.

    The Honor System worked ... mostly.
    Me masturbating secretly is considered 'cheating' on her - and I can understand & agree with that.
    There are penalties of course but my 'need' overcame my fear of consequences.
    I thought my lapses were infrequent - she did not agree.

    In the past year that frequency has increased & I decided to take action to minimize my transgressions. I ordered a Lori's Device.

    Silly me ...
    I was hoping to keep a key for myself because MY goal was to remove the convenience. That was my plan until my wife said: "I'll hold on to those keys".

    I'm locked about 1/2 the time so this hasn't been a reliable solution to keeping 'honest'.

    Practical as they come, my wife simply said "I'm just going to occasionally ask if you took matters into your own hands. You won't want to answer 'yes' to that."

    Dang! She knows I will be truthful about it. I can't think of a simpler way to stop the cheating.
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