LesterBallard
Last Activity:
Mar 28, 2024 at 7:11 AM
Joined:
Oct 2, 2016 at 10:55 AM
Messages:
15,490
Likes Received:
5,488
Trophy Points:
143
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1:32 PM
Gender:
Male
Birthday:
Aug 26, 1964 (Age: 59)
Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
United Kingdom
Occupation:
Management

LesterBallard

Long term member, Male, 59, from United Kingdom

Who you are depends on who you were. And vice versa. Jun 10, 2019

LesterBallard was last seen:
Mar 28, 2024 at 7:11 AM
    1. Elon
      Elon
      Your "about" message is awesome. I feel I will learn and experience these things on my journey.
      Kathy McIntyre likes this.
    2. madams-sissysub
      madams-sissysub
      Congratulations on hitting 10k posts!
      King Hippo likes this.
    3. sensitive_skye
      sensitive_skye
      Hello LesterBallard, may I follow you, please?
    4. jemima
      jemima
      please what dose Mitcham mean
    5. jemima
      jemima
      when I sayed Bono in the Word thingy I mean him in U2.
      PPowner likes this.
    6. Mash2214
      Mash2214
      I Have to commend you on your activity. You make so many new people feel welcomed. Good for You
    7. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      Who you are depends on who you were. And vice versa.
      Breathe and Love2blocked like this.
    8. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      Embarked on my second extended period of chastity
      1. Gemma
        Gemma
        How long will you go for now?
        Jun 7, 2019
        olev68 likes this.
    9. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      A new year brings change
      EGyslave likes this.
    10. Sissy_Denise
      Sissy_Denise
      Lester,
      I've read a lot of your posts and considered them mostly thoughtful and subdued.
      I have now read your bio and understand the depth of your thoughtfulness. Your journey to understand yourself is commendable. I think we are a lot alike, except for our choice of clothes. I to have a Type A personality at work. People would be shocked to see my passive side, but like you it makes me complete.
      Denise
      1. LesterBallard
        LesterBallard
        Hello, just spotted this. Glad you've found something interesting in my posts. Have a good New Year.
        Dec 31, 2018
    11. Slutina
      Slutina
      Congratulations on your perseverance. All I need now is a Mistress to be chaste for.
    12. LesterBallard
    13. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      And so the third month of chastity begins. Each new month feels better.
      1. martinb
        martinb
        Well done! Keep up (Humm, is that the right term?) the good work!
        May 26, 2018
      2. Happydays986
        Happydays986
        Well done ! That’s amazing. what device do you use ??
        Jan 31, 2022
    14. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      Day 50 of chastity
    15. Joan.t
      Joan.t
      Never give up, and when the will to give up is overwhelming just give up from giving up.
      Alberttheprince and nonerect like this.
    16. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      Privileged to be allowed to begin my second month of chastity
      Joan.t likes this.
      1. Joan.t
        Joan.t
        I always knew you could do it, many more will come for your enjoyment.
        May 3, 2018
        LesterBallard likes this.
    17. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      And I've reached the target of one month....
    18. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      30 days of chastity and devotion
      Joan.t likes this.
    19. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      Chaste for four weeks today. Delighted.
      Joan.t, Breathe and LadyMoon like this.
      1. Qveik
        Qveik
        .
        Apr 22, 2018
      2. Joan.t
        Joan.t
        Bravo! You are entering a new level in life, you will want to ask yourself: "why have I not done this before?"
        Apr 23, 2018
        Breathe and LesterBallard like this.
    20. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      Very happily chaste
      LadyMoon and Breathe like this.
    21. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      I won't give up
      1. L-u-c-y
        L-u-c-y
        Don't give up lester!
        Apr 19, 2018
    22. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      happily writing
      Slave to a Goddess and Breathe like this.
    23. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      determined and persevering
    24. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      after difficult days it is wonderful to be able to reflect on how important your Mistress and guide is to you. Thank you, Mistress...
    25. LesterBallard
      LesterBallard
      Learning more every day
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  • About

    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Aug 26, 1964 (Age: 59)
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    United Kingdom
    Occupation:
    Management
    Your chastity role:
    • Submissive
    Chastity devices:
    I have two, but I don't know what they are called
    Chastity resume:
    I have only ever experienced self-chastity. I am now working hard at an honour system. Started 25 March 2018
    I have no agenda here. I'm not looking for anyone or anything. I am happy in my own life. I have a vanilla partner for whom all this would be inexplicable. I only want to talk and explore and examine. That's it. Total.

    I've been interested in d/s relationships for many years. I've lived it when I can, but mostly I have lived it vicariously through writing fiction. I used to have a very successful story site on asstr which featured a lot of D/s and Femdom material. I learned a lot about myself through writing that.

    Over the years, I have moved from being a switch to mostly identifying as submissive. This is something of a reaction to real life, I guess, where I have a responsible job and make decisions that can fuck up people's lives.

    I see this sexual identity which I have adopted and accepted as being a response to real life, and I like it. It is a complement to real life, a different part of me, concealed day-to-day but no less genuine.

    Me? I don't know what I want, not really. I want to explore and understand, and that takes time. I'm not looking for a grand relationship. I don't want a domme to serve. I just want to delve into this peculiar state of mind which has overtaken me and see where that takes me. More and more, chastity is becoming a holy grail for me.

    I am at the start of what I think may be a long period of exploration to understand what I truly seek.

    For sure, my starting point was selfish self-gratification. I wanted to manipulate a situation which accorded with my fantasy of domination. Even if that happened, it would not be true domination, because it was something I had basically engineered.

    Now, I am seeking something different, but I am not yet entirely sure what it is. Certainly, any idea of domination doesn't come with the erotica baggage attached to it, or the notions of humiliation or subservience that originally informed my thinking. It's something else.

    Bu that idea of chastity? Willingly? Oh, that hits something deep inside me. That is powerful. That is magnificent. To be able to make that connection, to be able to give that commitment, and know it is unshakeable. Wow, that is the ultimate turn-on. I want that.

    I am a writer of erotica. I am mostly submissive but I can write from any point of view.

    If you would like me to write a story for you, let me know. Tell me your fantasy and I will turn it into words for you.

    Thanks for reading this. Drop me a line if anything I've said piques your interest.

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