DrChastity

I live in Portland, OR and have several top fetishes, but chastity has always been the main one. I've always wanted having my orgasms controlled and denied by my KH. I also have a strong fetish for wearing and/or worshiping extreme high heels. I'm into crossdressing, bdsm & I especially like wearing fetish outfits of all kinds.
I've read a lot about a lot of you and you're such a nice, interesting, welcoming, friendly and diverse group of people!
I've loved chastity since I was a teenager. I've had the very strong and frequent urge to be locked up in chastity under the will of a strict, demanding, creative dominant Keyholder for most of my adult life. I was convinced that it needed to be in the form of an FLR, but it turns out that I was overthinking things. So recently I started dating a man, and that was really fun. It lasted 3 months but it didn't work out as he was just too vanilla for me. He was a novice to chastity but he took to it quite quickly, so that part was cool. It just wasn't a great match in terms of the Dom/sub nature of the relationship. But at least I learned that I'm polysexual. I do think that I mostly prefer women but I keep an open mind as I grow and evolve.
I'm not attracted to men, but if someone is into dominating and owning me and keeping me in chastity and exploring the same fetishes that I'm into, like I said, I'll keep an open mind. But I think my gut tells me that it's a woman I seek to serve, and actually that I wish to emulate. I don't know if I'm trans, and if I am, how far I'd go along that route. I know I would never have surgery, but I think I'd be willing to be feminized by my Mistress/Keyholder... I think I'd do whatever She wanted in the end.