As the title says, new to chastity/orgasm denial. Wife and I started playing in August, usually for a day or two. On 12/19/13 she locked me up for 10 days. Became really horny at the 4-5 day mark but worked through it. My time locked was set by a dice game we modified to suit our needs. Today she released me so I could jack off while she went out for a pedicure. Upon her leaving I feverishly jacked my dick and had an orgasm before I was even really hard. When she returned from her manicure and after some brief conversation I obtained the dice for her. She rolled the dice and came up a six and a five, she just giggled. Then she rolled one of the die and it was an odd number and she giggled even more and commented "That's what you wanted" and gave me a kiss. Now I'm without an orgasm for 30 days with a release of January 28th.
If that is the commitment you made, you should honor it. The entire game falls apart when people start looking for loopholes. ~m
No, I have to stick with it. I don't have a choice. I whined about the length yesterday since were just starting and her reply was "Oh, NO you're not going to back out!" meaning she's going to hold me to it. I guess I find out what I've gotten into.
Well I was out the whole weekend with plenty oh opportunity but stayed true. Even stayed out last night on hoped she would allow me pleasure, but she drifted off to sleep as she lay naked by my side. It took some time, but my frustrated mind finally shutdown. I'm sure you'll have plenty of opportunity to attend to her needs now instead.
Excuse me for asking, but, other than the control dynamic and tease and denial play, does your partner miss penetrative sex with you sometimes?
I assume she doesn't miss it or the dynamic is more rewarding for her? She did have some physical issues that prevented us for awhile before and after her surgery. In addition I work long hours 6-7 days a week. The wanabe Cuck in me fantasizes she's getting some on the side.
Tempting, but since the longest I've been locked is 10 days, 30 well.....seems monumental. Maybe after the 30 day release?
Woke up three time tonight with my little dick straining in the cage. After it mellowed out and as I type I find myself pathetically using the pre-cum that oozed out as a lubricant and am sliding my fingers over the head of the CB unit. I can't feel a thing, yet I can't stop
No, I don't think women crave for it. But I think for most women it is a part of their sexual repertoire. And I was making a serious, sensible and valid point. At what point does denial also deny the female desire?
Dare I say but possibly you are posturing from your own, thwarted and disappointing experience? It doesn't haVe to be machismo you know....
Ha! What delicious fun to have a fun spouse who will shower you with attention in the form of such teasing! Hang in there - you've passed the dreaded 15 day mark...
Thanks for the encouragement. It's been 11 days since my last orgasm and have 19 days left to release or at least I hope so? Yes, my wife has been wonderful with chastity and orgasm denial. I've been away from her for the last couple day and she's been teasing me by text. Yesterday she gave me homework to pick out a swimsuit for her to start tanning in accompanied by a pick of her ass with last years thong tan line with a text of "wouldn't you like to put your little cock on my tan line?" This bout of lockup has been more difficult than my previous 10 day sentence. Frustrated and per advice trying not to fight it, but enjoy it. I appreciate everyone's support while I'm learning