If you could turn back time!

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  1. subbutstillaman
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    Ok lets kick this off.

    If you could turn back time and meet your partner as a dom (assuming she wasnt before) would you do this and why?

    Second thought, if your partner was already dom what attracted you to her (i think subs always go for dom women anyway called it sub male intuition) and at what stage did the dom / sub conversation admission happen?
     
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    If I could go back, I'd go out with her again in an instant. My wife has changed so much externally since we first met but we never would have been right for each other back then, even though to tell the truth, she turned me on more wearing long flowing velvet dresses, doc martens, unkempt hair piled up in a heap on her head with little bells in it ahhhh...

    My wife, like probably many women, was convinced at first that she was submissive. We had many long conversations that ultimately proved the following:
    - I'm way more kinky
    - She's very open minded and accepting
    - I'm way more sub than she is.

    She is starting to realise that dominating me is fun and something she might want to get into more. We've played with chastity, we both enjoy it, it also makes her more keen to dominate me in a weird kind of positive feedback loop.

    There you go, I hope I actually managed to answer the question in there somewhere!
     
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    If I could turn back time I wouldn't change a thing, we've grown together this past 15 years and continue to grow, I love my life
     
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    I also wouldn't change a thing. It has taken 23 years to get to this stage in our lives.
     
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    I worked too hard to get this far. No going back. Today is the day. Now is the hour. This is the time.
    Bobbybig
     
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    I would have run for the hills!

    If I turned back time I also wouldnt appreciate all the good things that come w EMC. I was attracted to her because she was always horny and I could get "it" any time I wanted. If you told me the price was never getting "it" again, but replacing it with something better I would not have comprehended.
     
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    I wouldn't waste so much precious time with vanilla partners.
     
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    I'd be a sissy
     
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    If I could turn back the clock, I would do it all exactly the same. I would perhaps like it to go a little slower second time round though.LLL
     
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    My wife always has been dominant to me, humiliated me and cuckolded me in a certain way.

    My reaction have always been against her, but something in her made me follow her and made me addicted to her. And I tried to change her not to do this to me.

    So the only thing I would change would be to let it happen. Let her free and keep her loved and tight.
    And we hopefully would have known about chastity in theses days.

    Oh what a thrill would this life offer to both of us.

    I ask her the exact question today in the evening.
     
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    I think the only thing I would change if I was to do it all again is to agree to being cucked sooner.
     
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    wouldn't change anything. Life is what it is.
     
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    No I had to do everything I wanted to do, experience everything I wanted and get off all I wanted to appreciate this. Earlier me would have ran at the idea.
     
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    The only thing I’d do, is get my 35 year old son to a doctor in 2019. Hopefully catching the colon cancer before it spread, and save his life.
     
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    Wow. That's a hard truth. No matter how old they are, they're still your children, and that feeling of responsibility never goes away.l
     
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    JaySaysYes I identify as someone that is always right

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    I'd have made it really fucking clear that more than a week without cumming is a fucking hard liimit.
     
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    If i could turn back time, i wish i could meet Lady Kat when we were teenagers.
     
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    I feel like I hit the lottery to have met my soulmate at 18 years old, married her and was smart enough to not fuck it up that young! So all that I’d change would finding cages earlier instead of wasting so much time trying to have my Wife be submissive to me, we just didn’t realize she had a very dominant side within until four years ago. But at least we’re where we’re at now and hopefully have many many years ahead of us for fun
     
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