Hello I am new to this site. I am looking for advice and help from Mistresses and subs alike how to cope with chastity. I have been a sub to my Wife/Domme for a year or so now. My Wife has always wanted me in chastity and I used every trick in the book to avoid it, however, I obviously had to give way, My wife decided to initially lock me up for short periods and gradually build up the time I am locked up. My Wife loves the power she has over me when I am locked up often teasing me in bed, from my perspective I hate it, often pleading and crying for her to release me. I understand the reasons why my wife has locked me up and I am trying hard to improve as a sub being more obedient and devoted but I find it so frustrating to be locked up for more than a few days and desperate for release. I know i am being pathetic do the Dommes and subs have any advice for me when I am hard at night and in the mornings.
I am afraid frustration is the name of the game, kickball. Just be grateful to Her for your occasional release.
You are of course right Mistress B, I am besides myself with joy when my Mistress releases me, its just torture for me when my Mistress locks me up for weeks on end
Ahem - - ya' know, there's really nothing wrong with reminding her that you are an adult human with needs that include sexual needs (is this not part of why you got married?), too; and that just because you felt you needed a little kink/spice in your marriage doesn't automatically mean that this implies an unbounded moratorium on sexual release. The idea was to make it more exciting, NOT UNREASONABLE. Suspense can be fun. Abuse is definitely not.
It is surely up to the Mistress to decide on these matters. Some of you, I know, just play at this way of life, and if your Mistresses are happy with this, then so be it.