My Nervous KH

I think she should have more anxiety about you being arrested and strip searched. What nasty thing were you doing? I have found that I'm a much better, more attentive driver and generally nicer to everyone while I'm locked up. The last thing I want is to be setting in the back of a police care knowing I'm going to have some explaining to do. Sometimes a take a spare Emerency Key sealed somewhat like yours, sometimes I pack my purse and forget it at home. Beside's being dressed as a woman is much more fearful than wearing the belt. But with both, Oh, My!!!
My wife just says for me to tell them I wear it because she wants me too. Or requires me too, I decided

Nothing to worry about if you an nice, polite, person, Missy wishing she was, Tanya.

 

I think it is a great way to ease her senses. My Mistress bought a keysafe with a combination lock. In there is an envelope sealed with sealing-wax. Only She and a friend of ours has the combination of the lock so I can call/chat/sms in an emergency. A great way for extra security and there is no way for me to get to the key, Very exciting for me

 

I think most sensible people have these kind of concerns

After all, our private lives should not have any impact on unsuspecting vanillas, or threaten our jobs.

It sounds like you have found a happy medium.

I'm a great believer in the chastee having an emergency key, and I know others are totally against it.

Always look for what works for you, as a couple

 

We did something similar that had an unexpected twist.

I play football weekly and doubt at any point I would be confident to do so locked. A ball in the groin is painful enough and I wouldn't like to think what would happen adding a cage to the mix. I negotiated with my keyholder to carry a key with me and I would unlock at the last possible moment.

To ensure I didn't use the key before hand it was sealed with a signature in a way that once opened the signature would be destroyed. I would send a picture message from my phone showing the key had not been removed (and therefore) used and the signature was still intact.

I took the picture and 'Mistress' was still clearly visible, showing no tampering had occurred.

Just as I was in the process of creating the message to send to her I received a call from one of my team mates which somehow caused my phone to send the message...to him.

He had the impression that we were kinky before, but this prompted a number of questions from him which I managed answer without 'outing' myself.

 

We use the system Qntal does. A 6-digit resettable keysafe that I carry with me. If Jalan isn't available, there's a backup mutual friend with a code -- and I'd better have quite an explanation ready if I get the code from the friend!

 

My keyholder does not have the same concerns as you. she openly displays the key around her neck for all to see. I asked her what she would say if anybody ever asked about it. She laughed and said she would tell them. For 5 years, the question went unasked until one day a girlfriend of hers asked about the key. she smiled and said it was to my chastity cage. The friend laughed and said, "yeah right". My wife told her " you asked and I told you". about a week later, my the friend was at our house and was kidding with me saying my wife said I wore a chastity cage. I looked at my wife and she told me, "she doesn't believe me, show her:. I stood si;ent for a few moments and she looked at me and said, "did I just tell you to do something". I obediently lowered my jeans and put my cage and myself on display. The friend was amazed at the sight and had a hundred questions. My wife explained our relationship and requested the friend share our secret which she agreed to. That was 2 years ago and as far as we know, the friend has never said a word. she does like to kid me about it when she is over and my wife has taken to have me serve them, naked of course, whenever she is here. My wife's attitude has changed to "why should I be concerned if someone finds out I am your keyholder? I have nothing to be embarrased about" Personally, I don't relish the idea of it becoming public knowledge, but know it wouldn't kill me if it ever did.

 

I haven't made posts here because my husband and myself are very private with the male chastity thing but I think a legitimate excuse or reason that the device is there (he's wearing it) is that things like piercing, etc. are found everywhere it seems. I mean, people wear wedding rings as a sign of commitment and men are circumcised so what's the deal with a chastity device? It's a sign of commitment. I personally find someone with peirced lips, tongues, and eye brows more odd than a man with a well made chastity device on his penis. Sharon

 

Miss Sharon,
I like your take on the subject! there are much worse kinds of "lifestyle's" that people live. Right now only the people here, adn one very close friend know of our lifestyle choice.

Miss Tanya,
We have used a sealed key, back before we got serious about it. Right now I don't have access to a key without asking the wife. I do know where the key is kept, but would not even consider using it without her permission. I have had to call her and ask once, due to an "escapee" issue that I couldn't get back in place without unlocking. That said, during hunting season I will probably have a key with meso I can adjust and clean when needed, due to the increased exertion and being geographically separated from her. Permission will still be asked, and she will be notified as soon as things are back in place.

 

Sharon I agree to each their own also if I had to I could get tools from the garage an cut my device off w a little time

 

Hey all, interesting topic. Myself and my key holder are actually in different countries at the moment and the system we have found, that's working very well I might add, is a number combo padlock. When she let's me out to clean or play, or if I need to for whatever reason, she simply tells me the 3 digit code. When it comes to lock up time, we video call on Skype, I press the reset button, look away and spin the numbers. Holding the padlock up to the camera, I show her, she makes a mental note (hopefully she writes it down later) then I lock him up and mix up the numbers.

I've attached a pic of the lock.

 

Where did you purchase the padlock, I assume the code must be able to be reset.

 

I actually got it in a gift box that was full of random articles/gifts form various companies for Christmas.

And yes it can be reset, but only of course if it is on the current set code, pressing the reset button when its not will obviously not reset it.

 

hey cool i i have the same method works like charm i just bought the lock online resettable combination lock google is your best friend skype and webcam do the trick quit nicely

 

I wouldn't be happy with a 3 digit padlock. Far too easy to try all 1000 codes. Roughly 10 mins, I'd say.

One thing I envy some of you in this thread is the friend with the spare key. I find the idea of a collusion to keep me locked up very exciting. Do your friends know what the key is for?

One idea I've played with, is the friend having the only key and my g/f (who is a reluctant keyholder) having to ask her for it. The friend I have in mind would certainly give her a hard time for asking! And having succeeded in changing her mind, would certainly ring me up to tease me mercilessly.

Two things stop this happening in reality. My g/f is a private person and would not relate to the game at all. And the friend has started going out with my brother - and there are limits to brotherly love!

 

yeah 3 digits is to few i agree im looking for a more secure option too but this was a first "see what i can come up with" attempt seeing i dont know a KH personal with exchanging real keys but have experimented online a bit with it and this methods works but yes it has some security problems so far

 

My emergency key is kept in my wallet. We wrap it in multiple layers of masking tape and she signs it across the seam where the top two layers of tape meet, then it goes into a little Ziploc type bag so the ink doesn't wear off. She randomly checks to see that it hasn't been tampered with.

There's no agreement in place as to what will happen if it's opened, but I've been tempted to do so a few times, just to see what happens.

 

Yes you could go through a thousand combinations but why would you? The lock is just a deterrent, no chastity device is 100% secure if the wearer wants to get out they will. The point is you shouldn't want to. It's not just up to the key holder to in force your chastity, it's also up to the wearer. You have to honour your denial, after all if you don't your not just cheating her (or him!) your also cheating yourself.

 

or try a warranty sticker on the lock wich will brake if you open it and receive punishment X then though dont know if the warranty stickers that break on contact are waterproof

 

yes jessicas boy is correct, chastity is for both parties involved......you honor your Miss or Master while you are in chastity....so why break the honor