Hi everyone, new here and a lot is going to change

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    Hi everyone,

    I'm new here, exited about what is going to happen, but also nervous about the big change it will give to my life on an age of just above 50.

    I have ordered a CB6000 ariving tomorrow and eager to enjoy Male Chastity.

    I'm happily married, but our sexlive is lets call it vanilla. I'm a addicted masturbator, and also have several fetishes. My wife knows my thoughts, but does not want to participate in it and/or does not know what to do with it. This resulting in me looking around on internet/chats/cams and at least find my virtual satisfaction there.

    My fetishes are now coming together. Somethimes I wear womans lingerie, I do cbt on my self, teasing me anally, I am (I think) a switch, but lately very much attracted being a sub (pet or slave). Interested in male chastity about 1 year now and recently met a Mistress on the internet and I am now her pet and I enjoy it very much. We almost have daily mail/chat contact.

    To get my masturbation under control and at same time living the orgasm denial feeling I now have ordered the CB6000. I told my wife, but she does not realy understand and I hope after she knows I will masturbate less and be less time on the internet will still be alright for her. I want My (remote) Mistress to be the keyholder, but still have to arrange how to do this. My wife does not yet know the existence of my Mistress.

    I am eager and committed to start tomorrow but also know to take it step by step, reading also some postings her.
    I will keep you updated.

    Any advice is welcome.

    Greatings to you all.
     
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    hope you enjoy your new CB6000 - thought about asking your wife to hold the key. I hold the key for my hubbys chastity device and like controlling his cock - maybe your wife will like it too
     
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    Thanks for your comments.
    I have asked her once how she would feel about it, but obviously she could not yet give a positive answer. She does not understand why I want it and does not undertand yet what she has to do for it, also knowing that she normally will not take the initiative for having any sexual play.
    But you are right that I still would love her being keyholder, so I will see how she will evaluate things (and perhaps wanting to have control) going to happen in near future.
     
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    Short update on the fact that I have had a second chat on this subject with my wife and she accept to be the keyholder :love0038: and read something about it, if I show no pressure to her and showing enough attention. Well that is the purpose. So Im pretty excited and the CB6000 is coming TODAY. Will update you shortly......
     
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    I've had a cb6000s on for 2 months now and I absolutely love it. My ball sack is now nice and very tight, instead of being loose and hanging. I no longer know when I am going to orgasm again, and I don't really care. since my mouth and my ass provide others with enjoyment. Best luck with your device. Best, Lee
     
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    Great start to chastity. It takes time to introduce the wife to this lifestyle, but once she is understanding, she may be willing to have sex with another man, and that can become a real turn-on for you! You haven't said much about her sex life. Is she seeing someone? How will you feel when you see a real man have sex with your wife?

    Bill
     
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    First I received my first Chastity device yesterday and it feels great :Locker: . Still doing it slowly but steady. First part was 9 hours till the evening, removed it to clean and greased my skin that has to use to it. I could immediately walk, even running for an hour, shopping, showering, just felt good. As part of my addiction I also looked at porn to see what is going to happen, well of course no erection, still a good "pressure" feeling, but not too much. I expect to need less porn now. I did the cage on for the whole night and this was scary knowing how big my morning hard-on most of times is, and yes around 4 am I had to go out. I almost released my cock, but could cool down with a cold wet towel touching it. So I reached 10 hours. To have some time to adjust I did not wear it today at work, but right after tonight I put it on again.
    My wife is still feeling doubtful and I said have a read on some nice sight (no scary stuff for a novice on this area) and she will.
    Perhaps I overdue it a little bit, but I could not resist and bought her 10 red roses :give_rose: . I plan to wear the cage now for 24 hours.
     
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    Thanks. Wel I don't see that happen, but of course you never know. Sexually she is pretty vanilla , not too interested actually, yes curious and yes open mind. But till now not at all interested in other men. How I feel? Im not sure about that, because this is not my intention. I don't have a cuckold plan, I feel resistance and at same time excitement :wacko:
     
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    Goodmorgen, just an update on this week progress.
    I have been in chastity now for 24 hours with a good feeling, almost missed it feeling got over we when I released myself. Now locked for 2 days (my first 2 days) planned for another day. Tomorrow morning is the goal also to release myself, having no orgams since a week. It feels good. My wife accept that Im doing it, but does not yet want to participate. My remote Mistress love it, helps me, teases me, etc. More later.......
     
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    Sounds like it's going well for you - just have to keep upping the time :)
     
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    Why do you think:
    1. It would be a turn on for him (or anyone else that you don't know anything about) to see another man have sex with his wife?
    2. Why do you think he is not a real man because he is in chastity?
    3. What defines a real man in your opinion?
    4. Do you consider yourself to be deficient and not a real man?
     
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    I was thinking the same thing cockislocked...

    Anyway, glad you are enjoying your chastity Kinky53! Hope all is still going well!
     
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    Hey Kinky... sounds like you've got an exciting time ahead of you... hope it's as good as you imagine :)
     
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