first 24 hours

Hi All,

I'm new to chastity. I've been experimenting with a locking cock cage for about a year (I have the smaller version). Last week after doing some research on chastity forums I decided to buy a birdlocked neo . I must say that the customer service at keptforher.com was phenomenal. They answered my emails promptly and my device arrived in 5 days. Unfortunately I wasn't home when it arrived so I had to go to the post office to pick it up. Then I had to work for 5 hours, all the while thinking about my device waiting for me in the car.

On my first attempt it took me about an hour to put on my device. It was so difficult to hold the cage to the side, get both my testicles through the ring, and push my clit through the ring that I was wishing I had a third hand, or even better a helper. I even tried putting my clit through the ring first and then slipping my balls in afterwards, but this proved impossible. My clit was too engorged with blood to get my testicles through. I was worried that if I squeezed my balls anymore they would get crushed between the ring and my clit. So I reverted back to the recommended method of balls first then clit. However, every time I put my balls through the ring, my clit would get hard and it wouldn't fit though. So I had to put a shirt over my lap and play xbox while my erection subsided enough to slip it into the cage. It sure was a lot of work but when I was all locked up, what a sight! My poor clit was trapped in clear silicone, aching because it couldn't swell up. The other reviewers were right about the birdlocked pushing your balls away from your body. Thankfully my balls aren't so snug that it's too painful to wear. They still feel continually engorged. I'm hoping that feeling is from all the semen backed up in there.

It was hard to get my mind off my captive plaything so to help me sleep I had a wine enema that I held in with Tristan's butt plug . I'm not sure if I put in too much wine or if I was just tired but I ended up sleeping through my alarm clock. Peeing sure helped with the engorged feeling I was having when I woke up but I still wanted to ejaculate. But I knew this wasn't an option. I was determined to stay locked up without coming for 24hrs. The next 7 hours it was tough staying focused on my work knowing I was locked up. To cover up the bulge I wore boxers and baggy shorts. Thankfully it's summer so I can get away with shorts at work. Even with the boxers and shorts I found myself rearranging my package before I stood up to make it less noticeable. One thing about the neo is at the top there is a small flange, I'm not sure what it's for perhaps to make the neo more form fitting, that when my clit is pointing down pokes out farther. I wish the flange wasn't there at all. I'm considering cutting it off so the device is less noticeable. The other thing I'm considering is using a riveter to put a hole in it and attach it to a belt or string to hold the device closer to my body. Because I don't like how even though I'm locked up my clit still is able to push the device and my balls away from body. I would prefer it was snug against my abdomen. I really like how clean the latowski device looks , too bad I can't afford $2000 for a chastity device. Well I finally finished work and I couldn't wait to get home. I know it doesn't sound like much to many of you more experienced members but to this neophyte the first 24 hours was an eternity. When I got home I stripped off my clothes and before I did anything I took a few photos to memorialize the event (see attached pic).

Having reached this small milestone I wanted to reward myself with a hands free ejaculation. To help me out with this task I brought out my realistic pink vibrator . I put a towel down in front of the couch, got a plate, some lube, a small mirror, and put on a porno. I worked the dildo in my ass slowly at first without turning it on. Shortly thereafter, my impatience to come made me jack up the vibration and vigorously thrust it in and out of my ass. I did this for about ten minutes and started to dribble some clear pre-cum onto the plate but no semen. I decided to try riding it to see if that would produce a better result. I rode the vibrator for about 5 more minutes hoping to ejaculate. When this failed to produce anymore than pre-cum I resorted to stimulating my clit through the device. I tried squeezing it to no avail. Then I tried pulling it up and down to simulate masturbation. I could feel myself getting closer now. I pulled on the device harder, while in the back of my mind hoping I didn't damage my new device in my exuberant attempts to get off. I had the key to the device close by in case I needed to release my clit to come but I didn't want to resort to that. I wanted to come while locked up. I continued riding the dildo with the vibration cranked up all the way and yanking on my device. I was really close. The porno had a hot brunette getting plowed in the ass right as I was climaxing. Finally--with her moaning, him grunting, the vibrator buzzing, and the lock clacking against my device as I pulled on it for all I was worth--I managed to come on the plate in two great spurts. Nirvana at last!

Here's hoping I can have a hands free orgasm and keyholder to enjoy it with, but like so many other forlorn chaste members, for now I'm on my own.

your fellow locked member,

iheartchastity

 

Hi Hotwife&me,

Good luck with your hubby. I hope you can get him interested in chastity. It can be such a relief sometimes to know you're locked up and safe from pleasuring yourself. And the anticipation of an impending orgasm really heightens the pleasure.

It was tough getting through that first day. I tried another time and made the mistake of playing with myself before getting locked up. I ended up with a bad case of blue balls. I always thought they were a myth, but boy did I have them bad. It's much easier to stay locked up if I don't touch myself. I'm getting a little more accustom to wearing my device but it is still a challenge. Going to see if I sleep through the night with it on. Wish me luck.