New to Chastity

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    I just propositioned my wife on the chastity thing last week and I was amazed by her reaction! She instantly thought it was a great idea and was 100% supportive. She even started the next day making me promise not to wank off and promising sex denial if I did.

    I was amazed because my wife is very religious, very conservative. But, that is actually what led to her enthusiastic support. We've been married for 10 yrs, and two years ago I told her that yes, I enjoy porn and masturbation. She accepted that, though she quietly resented it. When I propositioned her on chastity last week, I asked her if she had any idea how many times i jerk it every week. She was stunned to find out it is nearly every day. So, my wife is very vanilla about this thing - sees it more as a way to curb me of my masturbating habit than anything else. But, at the same time, realizes I like a bit of domination in bed and gives me some of that. When I propositioned her last week on chastity, she also said that she thought our sex life was a bit boring and saw this as a bit of welcome spice.

    I guess what I learned is that you never know until you ask. And, it helps to give yourself liquid courage before proceeding.

    SO, I ordered a CB6000 today. I expect it this week and will begin the adventure!
     
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    I think you articulate what a lot of people experience when they venture down this road.

    In my opinion, only good can come of it and I think you both will find rewards you didn't expect. :)
     
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    congrats Reacher! I wish you guys the best of luck on this adventure. Please keep us posted on how everything is going!
     
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    Awesome, I'm in the same boat with my girlfriend, she feels that masturbation is cheating on her and is very religious. She is currently using chastity to fix this behavior but she has admitted to me she loves the power and control and wants to explore less vanilla activities soon.
     
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    you will be much happier with your Wife in control of your penis.

    I control my husband the same way. he was hesitant at first but has cone to appreciate it.
     
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    I would give anything to relive that first snap of the lock. Knowing you won't touch yourself without permission ever again. Congrats.
     
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    Caged Wolf A Wolf, even caged, is still a Wolf.

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    ^ Exactly!

    I only wish that my wife had been the first to snap the lock, but I did that during a "test period" to make sure I could do it. Now, when I'm locked up SHE is the one that locks and unlocks me, and she decides when I get to play, how much, and when/if I get to cum.
     
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