Hi Everyone, I thought I would add this since I have seen enough postings about how to get the other play partner more interested in chastity. I think it is very important to get a hot and sexy CB. Personally, I prefer a metal open cage style so I can lick and play with my pet's parts. When we started the whole CB thing, we used the CB2000 (because we already owned it) and I really liked the access I had to my pet's parts. My pet however wanted the CB6000 since it was less noticeable under clothing and much easier to get on with the open ring. So that is what he has now and I must say I am a lot less attracted to it. We should have gotten the Jailbird or Watchful Mistress since they are so hot. So what I am saying is....be sure to purchase a super sexy CB!
Personally I think the KTB is the sexiest device, but if you get one for him he may not be so keen for you to lick or play with his parts. LOL Rita
Dear Ladies, both Your posts just reminded me of how different opinions on chastity devices can be and what a Lady considers as "sexy". My Mistress wouldn't want me to be locked in one of these ball trap devices. She - and this is my humble opinion, too - wants to see me in a full belt only. She likes my flat front so there is nothing that would remind Her of my "male" past. Well, that's Her (and my) opinion. *curtsey* maid katrin
I tend to agree with maid katrin, luv the flat front but not sure I could tolerate a full belt. That is the reason I use a locking panty girdle. This has it's drawbacks but for the moment we are short term only. We are looking at the Jailbird with as short a tube as possible so it will be "tuckable". My Domina does like the Jailbird and doesn't like most others. House of M Mr Gee
Well, the KTB sounds great (well - at least in a certain way^^) for a session, but wearing it for a a week or more ? *turning pale* I myself love the Steelwersextreme devices and I am currently purchasing the CC061 without PA Ring and with some minor changes. I won't have any use for it right now, but...well - you never know...
Hi, you all are correct since everyone is so different! Thank goodness for that, otherwise this site could become boring. I think my post comments will only be interesting for the vanilla, newbies where the partner is reluctant to try it, mostly due to wanting to see , touch and feel dick as much as possible. What can make it easier for couples is shopping with your KH to find out what works well for both of you .
Thank You Missmaddy!!! I have found that the ladies choose a cage first for the looks then for security. The Sub chooses for comfort first then security. Funny thing the ladies always win.
My tiff has a Centurian Sterling Silver chastity tube that I think is absolutely lovely. I often tease him and refer to it as his "wedding band".
My wife and I started with the CB-3000, with a few issues we decided to change and we spent ages looking for another cage type device. We eventualy settled for the Desire from Gerecke, it was open enough that the wife could still touch me, and with the bits we had added more than enough secure that I would never be able to release myself without some intricate metal work. For my wife, she loves it, she does not like any of the belts but as in the other posts, everyone has different tastes. Having PM'd tiff a few times over the Centurian I would have to agree for that one.
MissMaddy - I LOVE your signature line... it's perfect! I like any device that's sparkly and shiny! Gotta be metal for me. Also I like to be able to clearly see the balls and penis, that adds sex appeal to me. But as has already been said, everyone's mileage will vary.
And what about the "Intersex Chastity Tube" ? It's very "sexy" , beautiful .... and it seems very safe ! The real history is on my blog, and an image and drawing on my gallery duc
I I have a CB-3000, but my cock is always sweating inside the tube. We recent got a small metal cage that she said "looks like jewelry". She loves it. It's heavier, but I can breathe. It smaller, so as I get hard, there is nowhere to go, unlike the CB-3000 that gave me mre wiggle room. Having more skin for contact works for both of us. The other big plus is I can pee without ever making a mess. It has a piece of surgical tubing over the ball sack hinge, so it's comfortable. Here it is: http://www.dhgate.com/small-stainless-steel-chastity-device-male/p-ff8080812d06d725012d09be0be97386.html
Well - the link works for me, but it isn't a site I would reccomend linking anywhere.Selling imitated pharmaceuicals from china - sort of a nogo for me...
The link also works for me too, but I agree with the above comment. Beware of imitations, usually poor quality and dodgy metal! It is a lovely looking device though, a very popular design.
my Mistress likes to see me in the chastity i adapted from the CB6000. it is only an inch long, exposing my plums for Her amusement and occasional discipline. my stalk is entirely trapped, with the head peaking through the bars. She loves to hear the 'click click' of the lock as it taps against the cage as i serve Her. recently is was taken off for a while, about 2 weeks, as i needed to heal from a sore. after a week or so my full function returned to 7 icches and i could secretly masturbate. but due to the guilt i had to tell Mistress and soon i was locked-up again to feel normal, serving Mistress as Her maid!
We have tried them all. The CB300, 6000, a steel 3000, a belt, a Lori and now a mature metal. All I know is no matter what my wife loves the look of stainless. She especially likes the recent Jail Bird. We are having some fit issues but I imagine when we get it back all will be well. I have to agree with the original post however, as there was and is a huge disconnect for my wife when it comes to plastic of obnoxious bulges in the pants due to a poor fit.
Every Mistress is different, and we find different things to be sexy. A flat front would be perfect for a sissy, and I could see it as being very sisterly, but I don't find it sexy. I generally want to be able to see and inspect My property. A clear chastity is best for having it well-locked away, but easily monitored, while an open metal cage is sexiest in as far as being able to see and tease. ;-)