My beloved wife/KH and myself have been playing with chastity cages for almost 4 years. There are periods of 3-4 months in for a couple of weeks of freedom. To describe our relationship I would say we are towards the vanilla range. But the last week things are not as it used to be. We were discussing about our holidays last week and she told me that it's not fair to do what we did last year. Last year just because we couldn't afford all the family to go on holidays, she got the kids and I stayed back working and covering swifts doing overtime. This year, she said, we are going to leave our kids to my parents and we are going to go on a cruise with a sailing boat that you love! I was really excited about the idea until she showed me some pictures of the brochure. It's a swinging cruise! The idea of us swinging had been brought before by me but it was rejected immediately and without any possibility for the future. When I asked her she said that it was accidentally that popped in this guy's add and contacted him to ask for more details. She knew that the idea of a nude beach gives me chiles and wanted to see the potential. I told her that the idea of the nude beach is giving me the chils in relation to the fact that I will be wearing my cage and not be completely naked. The response was astonishing... who told you that you aren't going to be caged in our cruise? I WILL BE CAGED IN A SWINGING CRUISE? Why do you want me with you then? "You see this guy is organizing swinging sailing cruises for a couple of years and a couple like us asked him if he could organize one with a chastity theme. We are the second couple in. So there is going to be one more caged guy in the crew at least, so don't worry that much..." Although the idea is burning me completely, I am not sure I want to do it... Would you do it?
Yes. You only live once. You'll talk about it for the rest of your lives. It may or may not open doors for both of you and you may or may not ever do it again but you should at least try it once and see where (or if) it leads you.
I believe that if I say no, she won't push me but I don't want to ruin her surprise. I am so confused and horny that I can not think straight...
Just take the trip. Don't talk to us, but to the other keyholders ( if allowed) and be the best naked chaste man on board.
Each couple is going to have a videocall with the skipperbut other than that I don't know if we're going to contact each other. The thing is that we're only 2 couples and we're looking for 2 more.
I'm sure if you advertise on fetlife you'll get a couple more interested parties. I guess this boils down to whether you want to be a cuckold, because that's essentially what's happening here. Good luck whatever you choose.
Why don't you want to do it? Have you spoken to your wife abou why you don't want to? Why does she want to do it? I don't know what your relationship is like but consent is very important but at the same time sometimes we need to be pushed out of comfort zones to try new things we may enjoy. Who's to say that you may get unlocked when you are on board as well? As others have said I'd go for it! You only live once and you never know you might like it If my partner asked me I'd be nervous but I'd go for it haha.