You are locked, but are you a cuckold? Would you like to be?

Interesting.

Myself no and no. All our non vanilla behaviour has brought us closer together as a couple, I don't think introducing another person would add to our relationship with each other.

Having said that I'm fully committed to being in a FLR, so not my decision to make. If she decided she wanted to cuckold me I'd do as am told, but I think I'd feel very insecure.

She does have a major crush on Idris Elba, so I might be in trouble if she ever has the opportunity to seduce him

 

Consensual or not, the ultimate decision is made by the female if the husband and wife are in a true FLR relationship.

 

Agreed, cuckolding has nothing to do with being locked in a chastity device and I never said it did.

So if a wife or girlfriend has a sexual encounter with another woman, she is not cheating?

 

What, you are surprised everybody else doesn't share your same kink?

Here's a hint, you shouldn't be. This is a chastity forum, the only kink you should assume we all share is chastity. There are forums where you can explore other kinks. Maybe try there.

 

No, this is a chastity website. There is an FLR forum however. But chastity does not equal FLR.

Nor does FLR equal cuckholding. Chastity and FLR are both power exchange kinks, but power exchange has to respect hard limits and be founded on trust and consent. If the man in the relationship doesn't consent ot cuckholding, violating that "because it's an FLR" would destroy the R part of it.

 

NO and Hell No! First there is no “One Twue Way”, in FLR or any BDSM relatiinships. Hard limits should still be respected unless negotiated otherwise.

 

True, if you've agreed limits they totally should be respected.

In our FLR we've never set limits, you could say I have pre-consented to what she wants, I like it that way. But really that's very safe, she's really a very sweet caring person and far more sensible than me. To be honest she's far more interested in me doing housework than BDSM. I'd be very surprised if she suggested taking a lover

 

To paraphrase your own comment, I didn't say her being with another woman wasn't cheating. I said it wasn't cuckolding. Cheating and cuckolding are two entirely different concepts.

 

Okay, to each their own.

 

Okay, but it all boils down to which explanation of cuckold you subscribe to, and I have seen many variations. Which one is accurate, who knows. One states "when a wife cheats and the husband is aware and accepts !the situation" or something to that effect. Another stated something like " when a husband encourages his wife to take on a lover".

 

Just like that other joke when the wife asks which of her friends would he fancy a threesome. He wasn't meant to pick two of them

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Thank you for sharing your experiences. It's good to hear how you felt in reality rather than fantasy. I used to fantasise about being cucked by my ex but kinda glad it didn't happen. Mind you, we are split up now anyway. Doh!

 

Being in an FLR does not equal the female having the right to sleep with other people. It is a Female LED Relationship. Not a Domme/slave relationship. People confuse this all the time and think FLR means the female can do whatever she wants whenever she wants. That is simply not true. Now it CAN be if that is your dynamic. But in most relationships input from both parties is considered and consent still needs to be given.

 

My ex and I set up a FMF with a real pretty brunette. The ex was a real pretty red head. Well when we got together the ex got jealous and stopped it before anything happened. I was disappointed but dealt with it. We talked and she was surprised when I said I would gladly do an MMF but not and MFM.

After that we set up one then had several more. We always had fun.

Frankly I’m fine with whatever anyone want!

 

I am locked and I am a cuckold, I didn’t want to be at first, but my Madam insisted and enforced it, and it was for the best.

 

No and No, that is not to say I don't find the concept erotic.

Some of my favorite porn couple video features cuckholding, especially that Shannon series with her husband (search for Shannon Cuckhold on xhamster).

Both my partner and I agree that the reality of this neither of us could handle it. I get cucked sometimes by the strapon, that's enough for me That has only happened a few times, but it was hot.

I don't know what I would do if she did find it arousing, I kind of feel fortunate that she doesn't.

 

No, in spite of my kinks I still hold to traditional judeo christian sexual ethics. I would be unwilling to allow this dynamic in my marriage.

 

Locked and open to it

We recently spoke about swinging/partner sharing and I don't think my partner is interested. I said if she really wanted to I'd be open to the discussion

I think it's one of those things you don't know how you will feel about it untill you do it.

She definitely wouldn't want me with another lady but I think I'd be ok with a 3some with another guy. I think I'm a bit bisexual anyway but haven't realised it till the last few years. I do think exposure to femdom/cuckold porn has increased that though.

Almost as if it's broken down the perceived social norm. I'm not very good at explaining but I think society programmes us to be straight and monogamous and viewing the porn I have has normalised bisexualisation and 3somes and it's appealed to that side of me.

Also a big turn on for me is my wife having orgasms, having a good time and being happy. If she's happy as we are I'm happy.

 

Not a cuckold but would do anything to be one.

 

Nah. we arent into cuckolding.
However, she does like to watch me get topped by male friends and pegged by her female friends (thats how they blow off some steam).

 

i was a cuckold prior to being locked...and only afterwards was i instructed to be caged and locked.

 

No and no. My wife and I are polyamorous so the concept of cuckolding is irrelevant in our relationship. Also, my Mistress/KH is not my wife.

 

I am more than ready to be my Wife’s cuck.
I think She is ready to make me Her cuck. it’s just so hard to plan or to find a Bill.
But if the stars align someday I think it will happen.

 

Technically, that IS cuckolding, just a variation called cuck queening (where the female watches the male enjoy others). Whether you penetrate those others may be important to some people's definition, but not to mine.

I daresay there are other men in this thread that say they aren't cuckolds, but when they grab their ankles and get penetrated by someone that isn't their wife, or sucks a male friend, and their wife knows and enjoys that hubs is enjoying a third party, they can be called cucks by the modern definition.