Not allowed to ask for sex

I never outright ask my wife for penetrative sex, I always suggest I give her oral (I love that) Im caged when this occurs so this gives her the freedom of choice if she wants me unlocked at some point.
Mostly i remain caged and if i think she wants more Ill suggest i put on my boxer harness and dildo (caged)
Usualy she doesnt want that so then we move on to other activities while i remain caged.

 

In our case as in many others,not bothering your your KH/Wife asking for sex is a classical rule in the beginning of the chastity lifestyle.
As time goes by and she reaches the point of knowing and enjoying her position of total control , I believe if it is not a case of impertinence she would just be amused by the request.
A few days ago , after satisfying her, she said the tools I use for the said purpose were amazing and that her( formerly my ) Penis was useless.
I dared showing her my attemted erection and told her that my penis was absolutely excited and willing to participate ...
Yes, I was breaking a basic rule, but she only took the cage in her hand and said in the kindest way "Poor thing, but we both know he never ever participates "