Can beating (riding crop, whip, ...) help with horniness?

Sound pretty convincing yo me lol

 

A beating for sure wouldn’t make it worse, I say go for it! Maintenance spankings help keep me submissive and in the proper headspace, knowing I have to wait to be granted an orgasm. So maybe it’ll help you too.

 

We have started maintenance spankings. I think it does help for a couple of days anyway.
So we are doing two a week right now. I’d probably get away with one but I’m just so fucking horny I can’t help but ask if I can fuck Her, tell Her I’m going to flood Her pussy with my seed, say, “I know what you could put in your mouth”, when She asks me for dinner.
I just can’t help but say those things even though I know She is not going to allow any of them.
I used to say those things and then execute like a champion.
No more though.
When I start talking that way, She takes me over Her knee with the loopy Johnny.
I am starting to hate that thing.

 

Yes, especially after a long lockup and I am getting a bit nuts. A good thrashing gets me centered again.

 

I start almost every day with the riding crop. Depending on my Wife's (KH) mood, I could get anywhere from 10-20 hits. Some mornings it's not so bad, but when she feels like it, she can really lay into it. As soon as I see the crop come out, I get hard in my cage and excited for what's to come. Most times when she has finished, I'm leaking, so it doesn't help me be less horny...Not sure how other men react to it...

 

I am not sure why it works but when I am feeling tense from lack of orgasm the paddle really helps relieve that feeling.

While I hate being paddled I wish my partner would do it more often.

go figure

 

I would not know if it help against "horniness", but as it can be helpfull in other ways who not in this ?

I am in no way into pain. Even so a spanking can help me relax quite fast - bringing you to subspace and cernter at the here an now when you could not stop thinking about work...

 

For me, 100% creates a feeling of sexual satisfaction and temporary relief… but it doesn’t last long

 

That is the problem, it doesn’t last long. Then I need more spanking.
And it hurts! So I don’t really want more spanking….or do I?

 

Yes, a beating is very helpful in making me MORE horny.

 

Before we got into chastity I used to sleep cuffed to the bed - hands to the bed head, feet to the foot of the bed, with my hands kept at around shoulder level. If I started to disturb my wife she would get up, grab the whip and order me to turn over. I would then receive a few strokes across a bare bum with the command "go to sleep". It worked for me. Much better than lying in bed in a horny state. If your wife is willing to try it, why not. For safety, be sure she can avoid any sensitive areas. I understand that should include the lower back, where the kidneys are.

 

please i dont really know if be whip or cane wud make men horny but it dose make folks do what they telled to do. and as well a lot of men go to be whip and cane at some Ladys houses and they must like it cos if they dint they wud not go wud they.

 

I don't administer punishments for my sub-hubby's benefit but for mine. They help with his training and keep him submissive and in a proper frame of mind.

Yes very true. Hubby has learned to obey or face punishment. And even when he has been well behaved I am a big believer in regular maintenance discipline.

 

I don’t know?!! It’s been so long since I’ve been bad I barely know how it feels anymore…
I know I miss it.

 

Punishment is a key dynamic in keeping a man in the proper mindset. Chastity is useful! Never the less. Men can and do get grumpy, resistant and more. A proper spanking or? Will always bring him back

 

I agree!

 

I just read all these to my princess and she says great get ready I’ll be giving you a good one this morning I’ll beat you good you have been too suggestive beyond my limit, good even knowing it won’t last long I’m all in for the temporary boost!

 

Just to offer a different option, what about a gloved inspection and / or milking?

Its unlikely to make you any less horny (more likely quite the opposite), but will take your mind off it while that gloved hand is in there (if a *through inspection* is executed!)
Perhaps some days you could "hide some contraband" (just to get caught and see what happens?)

Either way, you might find getting drained off to help put you in a better place to last the duration?

All of this said, big believer in maintenance activities of all sorts (spanking being one of them.)

 

I'm so jealous of you, i get the occasional beating, but I crave more pain. I'd love to be beaten every day, but I think this is why my wife won't do it. Maybe if she beat me until I hated it, really make me suffer, maybe then I wouldn't want it anymore

 

Regular prostate massage or milking can make a real difference with a twist
you remain horny but are much less likely to cum accidentally

 

Absolutely! Several " treatments " surely help to reduce hornyness, although they can be compared to scratching a mosquito bite, the relief is great but just temporary and the previous condition is worsend.
But when an overwhelming desperation kicks in, they are more than welcome!
Spanking,bastinado,whipping,nipple/testicle / anal stimulation,tickling,deep massage ,applied long enough will divert your attention from your sexual need to a situation in which you either enjoy or suffer the alternative sensation that is administered to you.

 

@Mistress ComDom gives me a maintenance spanking every Sunday. I love for her to be in control but I’m not into pain. I assure you that 12 merciless slaps from a paddle on the bare butt has me thinking about anything other than orgasm!

 

It wouldn't hurt to try it, no pun intended.