My chastity hopes and dreams in vanilla relationship.

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    #1 Chastity obsesed, Jan 28, 2023
    I will be posting my experiences as I try to rebuild a chastity relationship with my keyholder wife. Ķ
     
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    #2 Chastity obsesed, Jan 28, 2023
    It most important to realize that a male's chastity sex drive becomes overwhelming to some new keyholders who are more than likely just going along with your "weird" kinks in an attempt to keep you happy. If you want her enthusiasm to grow you must go SLOW. NO I MEAN IT, REALLY REALLY SLOW. You most likely have started with self locking and presenting her with the keys (Don't be a pussy give her all the keys). Now is the tough part. You must make this about HER, not you. Do nice things for her and for goodness sake DON'T ASK FOR ANYTHING IN RETURN. It may take a long time for her to warm up to your kinkyness, so be patient. You wanted to be locked up so keep your cool and chill out and enjoy your inability access your parts. Focus all you efforts on pleasuring and pleasing your keyholder. You MUST NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES EVEN SUGGEST PLEASURE SCENARIO FOR YOURSELF. Be patient and continue treating you keyholder as the royal QUEEN that she is. You must wait.
     
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    #3 The Queens consort, Jan 28, 2023
    Very good advice! That is more or less how I’ve handled it, while my Queen warmed up to it. She is now onboard and taking a proactive role. Once our new Jail Bird arrives, I may very well be in deeper than I originally thought. Time will tell.
     
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    #4 A4w2, Jan 29, 2023
    Yup, this advice is really on point. Don’t suggest scenes, don’t beg for unlock, don’t fall to your knees, just be helpful and give her as much love and o’s as you can manage.
     
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    #5 Chastity obsesed, Jan 29, 2023
    Last night was incredible! Special thanks to M. Sabrina for her kind words of encouragement and advice. I have self locked and informed my keyholder wife for 4 days. I have done and continue to look for nice things I can do for my wife with NO expectations. Last night was our weekly romp night. After long foot rub I made multiple attempts to physically pleasure her but was constantly told no. Wife wanted normal experience of tying me down and having her way with me. Once secured and she discovered i was still caged, see asked if i wanted to releleased from my cage. It was very hard but based on M Sabrina's advice I said no to my wife's shock. The whole dynamic changed. My wife seemed to relax cuddle and gradually explore. The experience was over the top in erotic department but most importantly my wife seemed to genuinely have a good time. When done she released the restraints that held me still then we snuggled and cuddled while I remained caged. It was heavenly. Afterwards we changed the sheets with her covered in her nighty but me naked but caged. This knight was proud to wear the armour for his Queen. While not painful me cage has remained filled since. The morning afterglow is awesome. My mind is racing on what nice things I can do for her tonight. Thanks M. Sabrina and Chastity Mansion as without both of you I would still be topping from the bottom like a frustrated jerk.
     
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    #6 Chastity obsesed, Jan 29, 2023
    Sorry for the fumble finger spelling mistakes
     
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    #7 The Queens consort, Jan 29, 2023
    I do believe the KH has to find their own way on this journey for them to be comfortable in their role, and enjoy it.
     
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    #8 Caged for life, Jan 31, 2023
    Good luck with your aspersions, I hope the work out for you
     
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    #9 Chastity obsesed, Feb 1, 2023
    The last few days have been incredible. I have now worn a cage 24 /7 for 7 days. My wife and keyholder indicated that the next night would be the night for release the last two nights. Now I was told there was nothing she needed tonight. Yikes, did I just get locked tight For a long time? I am happy excited, and scared all at the same time.
     
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