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    #1 Littlejt1, Dec 23, 2022
    Pretty much sums up how the Christmas season is gonna be according to my wife. We’re near the 90 day mark, which will actually be next Saturday the 31st, and longest I’ve gone with an O. I know folks on here have gone longer (my last record was 67 days)….

    Curious if anyone is getting the gift of an orgasm for Christmas, or the gift of denial, lol. She said she may let me cum next Saturday, but part of me wants to stay denied as I dread the drop and reset that will come with it.

    Next year she’s committed to letting me fully pop only 3 times (still working out the when, kinda know the hows), so that’s gonna be a ride.

    Love to hear others thoughts on this and experiences, especially those denied past 90 days, and how you felt if you were given the opportunity for a full orgasm and whether you wanted to keep going with the denial.
     
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    #2 Chaz69, Dec 23, 2022
    May last O was on Dec 11 (and that was after 121 days denied). My wife now wants to keep me locked until we go on vacation in late Feb, so I won't be cumming for Christmas either.
     
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    #3 Queens property, Dec 23, 2022
    I'm on around 3 months. My fiance has said I can have 1 orgasm soon but then depending on how I act during the resulting drop I might have to wait until our wedding night in October for the next one. That thought scares the shit out of me.
     
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    #4 Littlejt1, Dec 23, 2022
    Wow!! The last time I came the drop was crazy…the release was fantastic, don’t get me wrong, but I also felt defeated and deflated emotionally. I still felt very thankful to my wife, but the deep total desire to do anything/everything for my wife wasn’t there as strong - mind you I love my wife so I’m always receptive to her, but it was definitely different after. Also that “high” of constant horniness was gone and I found myself missing that greatly, especially the first day or two.

    Was also very reluctant to put the cage back on, but also kinda apathetic about it…kind of a “yeah fine, cage it, I got my orgasm”… it’s a wild ride.
     
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    #5 madams-sissysub, Dec 23, 2022
    My madam actually got me a Christmas card with that on it a few years back!
     
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    #6 Chaz69, Dec 23, 2022
    I think I'm lucky that (so far) the drop for me is just the lack of horniness, I'm not detecting any bad mood change. I like the constant horniness, but after 4 months it was actually nice to take a break for a few days.

    But to jump from 3 months to 10, that will be intense !!!
     
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    #7 slutsarah, Dec 23, 2022
    You are getting out for vacation?
     
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    #8 slutsarah, Dec 23, 2022
    Right now we seem to be on about a two month rotation, i was hoping something for my birthday (yesterday) but family is in so no relief. Perhaps this afternoon when everyone is gone for a while, but i am not real hopeful. So just sitting around in the house, doing laundry until She comes home. Xmas doesn't look good either.
     
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    #9 Chaz69, Dec 23, 2022
    Who knows? She mainly wants to keep me orgasm free until then so that I'm "ready" for any fun and games, and she says she'd like some PIV on vacation, so I expect I'll be unlocked. But she also said she doesn't want me cumming on vacation. I've suggested that maybe I could cum on the last day, as I think it would be nice to cum in an exotic location, but of course it's still her choice.

    But it would also be wild if she finds that she's getting all the fun she needs with me staying locked. If I get back from vacation without being unlocked once, then I know I'm done for and will have to start absorbing Tom Allen's captions !!!
     
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    #10 Chaz69, Dec 23, 2022
    I did a 3 month stint from Jan to April this year, and I just ended a 4 month stint, which was easier than the previous one, so I think it does get easier. It might be fun to try to go for a 6 month stint next. If I get given an O on vacation, that would be a 2 month break.
     
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    #11 Caged for life, Dec 23, 2022
    That would be me, my wife she won't wait that long for PIV
     
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    #12 Echo321, Dec 23, 2022
    I recently passed the 150 day mark since I’ve had a real orgasm and I already know I won’t get one until February at the earliest. It’s been almost 10 weeks since I’ve even had a ruined one and I’m denied even that for the rest of the year, so I will definitely not be cumming for Christmas. As my wife likes to say, she cums enough for the both of us.
     
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    #13 Chaz69, Dec 23, 2022
    150 days already, wow. I've read your story and it is amazing how quickly your wife went from 0 to 60 and beyond.
     
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    #14 Littlejt1, Dec 23, 2022
    Yep she’s ramped up this past year…after my PA healed it’s was “on”, and she finally really broke past the “guilt” of saying no.
     
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    #15 Echo321, Dec 23, 2022
    Yeah, it’s been quite the ride in such a short time. She’s definitely embraced her role and has been having a lot of fun with it, as have I. Mostly.
     
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    #16 lmel1, Dec 23, 2022
    Last erection and ejaculation was December 11th during PIV with the beautiful wife. Caged immediately afterwards. On December 17th, after being pegged with her big black cock, she said she would be to only one cumming for the rest of the year! She has had 6 great ones by my tongue since! She told me this morning that I would be getting caned and pegged tonight, so I would have something to thing about during Christmas! Having fun in the holiday season!
     
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    #17 Chaz69, Dec 23, 2022
    Did she say if she meant 2022 or 2023?
     
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    #18 cumslave_2002, Dec 23, 2022
    I know I won’t be getting a Christmas O this weekend. If I’m lucky I might get my last prostrate milking for the year.
    January of ‘23 will be 2 years masturbation and orgasm free.
    And my Goddess wife has already told me, that it will be at least another year. As well as prostrate milkings will be weened down to only 2 next year.
     
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    #19 Chaz69, Dec 23, 2022
    So your last O was Jan 2021 and your next one will be Jan 2024 at the earliest? Hasn't she also talked about making everything permanent?
     
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    #20 Littlejt1, Dec 23, 2022
    We just got back from vacation last week (cruise), and when we got on board we started messing around and I expected to get unlocked (she loves PIV too), but then she said to me - you brought the key right? (it’s in a key lock box like a realtor would have). I froze as I honestly didn’t know where she had it and expected her to bring it, but nope she actually forgot (maybe subconsciously on purpose), so that was a rush…7 day cruise with lots of sex and never being unlocked. I think that also helped solidify her resolve to take me to the end of the year and make plans for next.

    When we’re on vacay I’m normally always unlocked at least, although don’t always get to cum. What a rush it was this time.

    She’s still “deciding” if I will or won’t on NYE.
     
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    #21 cumslave_2002, Dec 23, 2022
    Yes, her goal is indefinite. I was supposed to get a orgasm once a year, but she changed her mind about it. She said I seem to be dealing with it well, and there’s no point having to deal with the sub drop. She believes I’m at a perfect point of submission and attentiveness, so why stop.
    I’m having a harder time dealing with that any type of relief is going to become so rare next year. Which has me believing that at some point there will be no relief whatsoever, and I’ll remain horny, aroused and frustrated for life.
     
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    #22 Chaz69, Dec 23, 2022
    Do you think you're ready to go relief-less forever?
     
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    #23 Chaz69, Dec 23, 2022
    That is pretty hot !!!
     
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    #24 MsPamela, Dec 23, 2022
    I usually give hubby an orgasm on special occasions (birthday, Christmas, anniversary, etc). But this Christmas his gift will be teasing. Lots of teasing. Any orgasm will have to wait until January. I know it's only one more week, but I do get a little thrill telling him he's done with orgasms for the year.
     
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    #25 cumslave_2002, Dec 23, 2022
    It’s a scary thought, but if that’s her wishes I would certainly go along with it. We’ve been in a D’s type relationship for almost 20 years, and most of it has involved chastity. I made this commitment to her, and knew full well that things would escalate into this at some point. Honestly I don’t even think about what masturbation and a real orgasm are like anymore. I try not to get myself excited to much, because that makes it worse. I have the hardest time when I’m orally pleasing her, or if she’s pegging me. I get so frustrated and horny from that, I have to ask Ms to give me a good canning afterwards. Just so she can whip the erection from me, and get me back to a submissive sub space again.
     
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