Looking for No Erections for One Year

right, the thing is, it’s not an assumption.
Hubby says he can’t feel himself trying to get hard.
If he were trying to get hard, he’d feel it.
So either the blood is not flowing, or he is lying.
(I don’t really think he’s lying, I think of it more as an exaggeration)
But if the blood is not flowing then he is not trying to get hard.
And if is, then he can feel that (anything short of a med issue)

 

Not a lie, partner. Not an exaggeration. That device is perfectly sized for me and is a solid tube. I have to use the sock method to get it on and that’s as big as I can get in it.

I usually turtle if I’m sitting but not when it’s on. And there’s no bars on it. So there are no pressure points anywhere on the device for me. I can get excited but there’s no difference between soft and trying to get hard since it’s still the same size and won’t move in the cage as long as it’s locked on.

The cherry keeper keeps me flaccid too, but I can feel it trying to get hard because of pressure points from the small ring around the entrance of the cage and the bars at the front. It’s just that I don’t get very hard if the head is squeezed and unable to grow so you’d never know I was trying to get hard. This is why the question came up about whether cage only would work. But there’s almost no sensation at all in the nub.

I don’t care if you think I’m lying but it’s a pretty silly thing to lie about, and what would be the endgame? I’m really lucky that my wife is willing to do all of this with me. How would it benefit me at all to tell her I’m having an experience that isn’t truthful?

I’d challenge you to find a smooth pipe that’s just a hair smaller than your flaccid size. Then put it on your penis and report back with what you felt when you tried to get hard. If you say you felt like you were trying to get hard, I don’t think I’d believe you. If there’s no room to grow at all, you won’t feel it grow.

 

I think the bigger point is she wants to control erections, and feeling hard, when we penis owners can't even control them

It would probably be easier teaching a cat to play piano

 

Feeling it grow, and feeling hard are different

You can only control structures outside the body with a device

 

You can see in my album I'm a grower, from virtually nothing...so preventing any erection has been difficult.

The closest has been using the HT 3 Nub and putting a glass marble inside to fill up some space and for foreskin to go over.

Left virtually nothing to grow in to...it took the effort away from trying after a while, felt very emasculating.

https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?gallery/photos/58933/

 

Wow, well… sounds like he’s asked for it!
Sounds fun.

I think restricting increase in girth does help, but wearing something tighter than one’s natural flaccid diameter is counterproductive. I tried, and caused subdermal bruising and skin irritation over time. A 1/16” (1.6mm) difference can be huge.

For me, I can wear 1-1/8” briefly but 1-3/16” indefinitely. MaleChastityNow made me a 1-3/16” GlansArmor by request, after 1-1/4” got too easy, and 1-1/8” wasn’t tenable.

If his length is sufficiently squelched it prevents a “raging” erection. My smallest ball trap, a short straight Contender with 1/4” gap, 1/4” ring and 1-1/4” cage, caused me ball pain when my wife tried to arouse me. Below a critical length my skin folds up, and it makes it difficult for me to dry my skin.

It will be a journey to find the exact size that lets him wear a cage indefinitely, and restricts his erections to the point that he’d rather not have them.

I’ve settled on my cage-only device and I try to keep as much shaft skin tucked under and wrapped around, so any erection is stifled to be half length. Since I am quite a grower, a cage only device like the glans-armor works.

I’ve dreamt of trapping my GlansArmor under a female steel-cable chastity belt, to keep it pointed down. I’ve got sketches of an idea on how to accomplish this.

Good luck!

 

I wear a cherry keep cage significantly smaller in length and girth of my flaccid penis. When I am aroused my penis "tries" to expand, but there is no where to go. Blood collects behind the cage, and inside the cage I am bursting through the bars, to some extent.

I still feel the erection process, but it's not satisfying. It's somewhat painful and is extremely frustrating to not be able extend to my full size.

Isn't that what you are looking for?

 

I found that I to could pull out of my Neosteel belt. I made it secure with my PA. Now no more pulling out. I can go into detail about how if you would like to, privately.

 

My experience has been that any well fitting cage will give that feeling after a few months.

 

This thread has amused me way too much!

I think the problem here is that you’re not asking if the flu jab prevents flu. You’re asking if a new flu jab prevents it… but the only people giving advice are those who had the old flu jab.
Of the population of people who had the jab only around 1% had the new one and they’re not very vocal…

 

I have to ask the question- why not go with the nub? It seems to be the only thing that has met your needs and you keep referencing it. Is there a particular part you don’t like about it’s design? In that case perhaps a few alternatives can be suggested. I’ve never heard of a “cage only” design that will prevent a partial erection (also for clarification, most on this site think of “cages” as ball trap devices, “cage only” devices are often called tube only or PA sleeves or something similar, I think a lot of confusion came from there).

 

Maybe they died from it.

 

Madam Darling,
IMO trying to prevent total erections for a whole year would be difficult with a shaft only device, or really any device for that matter. And if you were successful at first, eventually nocturnal errections and your sub’s body just getting used to his situation might make in unbearably painful for him down the road. Have you considered possibly getting a shaft only device that although would not stop growth completely, it would simply punish it with pain should it occur? Something possibly with subtle spikes at the tip of the device that would not hurt him while he’s flaccid. Same concept like one of those “Underworld” movies where the werewolves wear tight metal collars with spikes around their necks that would severely hurt them if they tried to change from human form lol.

 

I'd like to limit elections to prevent idiots running for office.

 

In today’s world you have to either be an idiot, a masochist or be corrupt to run for office…

 

I’m not speaking for Madame Darling here, but from my understanding I gather:

He’s pierced so naturally what you’d want is a cage without the ball trap. It’s the worst part of chastity.

The nub is a ball trap device. It has negated the issues with the ball trap and is comfortable. It doesn’t however prevent total pull out (I could be wrong on that front.)

Basically, the aim is to find a non-ball trap device that incorporates the piercing to prevent total erections and pull-out. It seems simple to me…
We’re looking for the holy grail of chastity devices.

 

This thread grew fast. I'm not going to try to quote any of the many threads I can only speak from my own experience.

I've been in chastity in one form or another for also 12 continuous years. I have had a 6 Guage pa piercing for over 20. I'm a grower, like your husband. Flaccid, I'm about 75mm long and 32mm wide. Erect approximately 160mm by 40mm.

I have a badassworkroom.com ba25, 50mm long by 30mm ID. The base ring is 48mm and fits snugly. With direct arousal in attempt to evoke an erection, in the 45 days wearing this cage, there have been no full erections to the previously stated dimensions. Usually it stays soft, but swells through the bars of the cage. Ejaculation is possible with application of a vibrator and enough other simulation (nipples, touch, mind) but doesn't really have the same impact as a "free range cum shot". Ruined is an over statement.

Morning wood, however, is another thing altogether. The ring clasps tightly, and the scrotal skin pinches hard against the inside of the base ring. The glans and tip of the corpus cavernosum expand to the absolute maximum dimensions allowed by the cage and the rest of the corpus cav. Push internally on the pubic mound, and stretch the scrotum and testicles painfully away from the body. This is my daily alarm clock, as this very unpleasant condition persists until i get up and urinate, which usually takes a while.

No amount of teasing, porn or other stimulation will create an "erection" of that magnitude. Much to my sadistic Goddess Wife's disappointment.

In the past, with other, looser fitting cages, erections have been easily obtainable with enough stimulus.

Not sure if that data point helps your study, but that's my experience.

 

There is no such non-ball trap device that I'm aware of. PA-secured devices, when sized tightly to the size of the glans, can indeed prevent a total erection. However, a partial erection would still be possible, and that erection would be much more complete than the Nub device.

 

Oh... One thing i will point out is that when I do attempt to get aroused, the portion of skin that I am able to contact between the bars feels slightly numb.

Additionally, if i allow the morning wood sensation to go on too long, the tissue in the glans where the PA attaches becomes swollen and tender, not quite edema, but I suspect it's a hydraulic issue of some sort.

When I'm allowed out of cage for my waxing appointments, the penis is completely numb for the first 30 minutes or so, and makes no attempts at erection. This is contrary to all previous cages, where just the stimulation of removing the cage would immediately elicit an erection. My Goddess allows me to go to my appointment with Tegaderm tucking everything back, and I'm to immediately apply another after the waxing is done until i get back home.

I've not had an erection during the two times that's happened since the cage went on 10/31...

 

The only tube only device that isn't a ball trap device that I can think of that might prevent erections is a Kahli's Teeth. You'll never stop an erection starting, but a well fitting Kahli's teeth device would either stop them and/or else cause a lot of pain in the process.

How well it works might depend on how masochistic he is.