Well our agreement has worked for a while now. I recommend a cum tax. Basically I have no say when I'm released, but she she asks me when I want out I have to pay £40. If she gets no money she sends me out whilst she satisfies herself and I'm to wait a few more weeks or until she's ready. She has kept her word and stuck to this. She says why shouldn't a man pay. Men basically pay for it by other means anyway. She would not change this.
At the beginning of our marriage, we had such a period (the beginning of the femdom relationship) when I had to pay her for each of her orgasms an amount set by her (something around 25 usd).... whereas when it was me who wanted to have sex with her the rate increased a lot and depended on her mood.... even then I couldn't finish in her but I could ask her for my orgasm after SHE finished - only that for an additional fee.... this went on for about a year , then we went to another level and cuckold and refusal to orgasm appeared....
I pay my Wife a $20 a month milking fee. That doesn’t necessarily mean I get a monthly prostrate milking. It’s her fee to watch and supervise me doing it to myself. I have 10 minutes to be successful or the session ends. If I fail, I’m usually penalized for another 2 months. But I have to continue to pay monthly.
It’s whatever works for you, madam and I used to do this when we first started our Bdsm lifestyle, once we moved in together and got a joint account madam would no longer permit it as she said was her money now.
My wife and I used to do this. But then she took over all the finances and now it's pointless. She already has all the money
Many years ago my wife was feeling guilty about keeping me locked 24/7, and especially about her receiving pleasure without reciprocating (by letting me orgasm). After several adjustments/modifications to a MM cage (including the addition of loops for my paracord waistband) it was finally comfortable for 24/7 wear, so we established an experiment where she would get a sum of money every consecutive day i stayed locked. Remove the cage or allow me an orgasm and the game would end. To make it more fun (and goal oriented) we went shopping and picked several nice things she wanted (like jewelry and handbags), then came home and added a picture of each item to a calender that showed how much money she would accumulate out to 150 days. This gave her concrete rewards to work toward, as well as a fun shopping trip when a threshold was tripped. She called it quits on the 100th day, and it really marked the end of me topping from the bottom, and the start of our FLR journey. Afterward the idea of me "paying her" to do anything would seem silly.