How to get it to go soft quickly?

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    How do you get your penis to go soft right after tease and denial or piv?

    My keyholder wants me back in cage ASAP but no matter how hard I push or try and bend it it takes longer then she wants. She has tried physical punishment but turns me on more.

    Any tips or tricks to get soft quickly for a grower?
     
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    ice cold washcloth.
    Hands should be tied down. After playtime, just lay a very cold washcloth across your parts and let the cold do the work.
    just be patient and let her tuck everything back in and lock it up herself. (a hot moment to be sure.)
     
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    A package of frozen peas or corn usually helped.
     
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    Pain might help for many people. F.e. a hard pinching in your glans might make the whole situation unsexy quite fast.... ;)

    If that does not work or is not wanted try a cooling pack or a package of frozen peas as an alternative ;)
     
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    #7 Jay Sub, Nov 23, 2022
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    I have exactly the same in metal, maybe you're more girthy, or not pushing hard enough. I get the predicament, when she's done she's done. My wife wants it away without a lot of fuss. I learned to do it in a more enclosed HTv4 and find the open design of the Cobra easier than that was. However, during the time I spent in the HTv4 Nano I was trusted to wash daily, it needed it, so I've had a lot of practice with soap in the bath or shower. Now I can get properly adjusted without lubricants a couple of minutes after locking when things settle down. I think having a foreskin is an advantage perhaps
     
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    Cold water works well, as already mentioned. But I always do some multiplication in my head. Works for me!
     
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    Icy water and willpower
     
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    It would be very unpleasant and painful, but a hard punch to the liver would definitely get the job done.
     
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    Cold or ice does the trick.
     
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    Brushing my teeth works
     
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    3 to 5 second from a stun gun to the base of the penis works every time. I can not recommend it but if nothing else will do... Just make sure it's very tiet to the skin.
     
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    The bag of frozen peas or corn combined with a spray bottle of ice cold water should do the trick.
     
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    Supposedly if you have to goto the ER for “having an erection lasting more than 4-hours” they give you an ice water enema.

    so I bet ice water enemas will definitely make you soft!
     
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    Masters&Johnson says a firm and steady pinching grip to the meatus will cause an almost instant deflation.
     
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    Can you give a reference so I can understand what and how this could work?
     
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    https://www.icliniq.com/qa/master-and-johnson-technique

    Essentially it's a firm grip on the glans with the thumb and first knuckle of the index finger for about 30 seconds. I've found that steady pressure works best. A little bit of pushing the whole penis towards the base too, and grip harder than you'd think at first. Seems like it would be painful, but it isn't
     
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    I take that moment to pee, wash up, and clean the cage. By then, it will go back on.
    If that doesn’t work, think of Nancy Pelosi.
     
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    Damn @Shepherdsflock and @Ericr you mean business! Might as well add "Belly flop into a cold pool off the 3M board"...
     
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    @Ericr let me know if you try it and it works for you. I know it's fast and easy for me
     
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    I have never been able to hold the taser more then a breff second. So it hurts but not the immediate loss of erection that I get when my wife uses it on me. So ya it works for me when my wife does it. ...

    ... What you mean the pinch. I will try and get back to you.
     
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    Thanks for this post, I'm new and my overnight has been brutal
     
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