Who puts on the cage?

I put on the cage, had the same problem as you when madam tried it.

 

They're my devices. I own 3. One is for daily wear, one for going out or public display, the other I'm not too fond of so it isn't used much. I choose which one will be worn, put it on and remove it. Since having PK pierced and converting to PA gland only devices, the task is so much simpler, easier and faster.

 

I put it on and walk over to her with the lock and on my knees ask her to lock it up

 

It takes me longer to put on the tube portion of the Evotion, so I have him do that bit. Although, I do enjoy putting the apadravya bar through, capping the cage, and locking it.

 

I put it on then leave the key on. her dresser. she hides it an then I'm in her mercy. no spear key or emergency key. I'm and I deal with it.

 

I put the cage on, neither her nor I want to pinch skin, but if she's around then she usually closes the lock. There's something about the "click" that seems loud and erotic when she does it.

 

She has never put it on or taken it off. She has no interest in doing either. Considering that it's a bit tender (and can pinch in many different ways when putting it on), I don't mind doing it myself.

 

This is how it is for me too. She’ll hand me the cage she wants me in before I head for a shower, then I lock herself and bring back the key. I trade it to her for a pair of panties of her choice…one of the regular times when she chooses panties for me, to reinforce who is in charge.

 

Interestingy enough, I just ordered this. Most of us would agree that to have someone try to put a cage on would be pretty tough. This looks like a good solution. I'll report back when it arrives in a week or two. https://www.aliexpress.us/item/3256...2iX5OQQ&gatewayAdapt=glo2usa&_randl_shipto=US

 

If you're the type that needs real security, the "lock" on that device is no more than a latch.
There's no key variation and it's a simple single lever.

 

Similar to some of the other guys. My Wife / KH is totally comfortable with me in chastity and her having the key and will, on occasions just simply tell me 'lock up'.
However she never shown the slightest interest on actually putting one of the cages on. I think she is afraid of hurting me (not that I'd mind exactly !) and it can be tricky to avoid pinching and squeezing.

 

I put it on in another room and then bring it over to her for the padlock to be added and closed. I think it would be too difficult to remain flaccid if she tried to put it on me. I do think that it's important that she is the one that slams the lock shut though. Otherwise it feels life self-locking which far less exciting for both parties.

 

No matter how many times we do it, there's still something quite sensual and erotic from the "Click!" when she is the one who closes the lock.

 

I put the cage on she puts the lock in and locks it