Who puts on the cage?

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    I just had a few days of freedom during my wife’s period(That’s just how our setup works). I’m on the honor system while I’m out anyway. My wife wanted to put the cage back on yesterday - but she couldn’t do it. I thought it was too exciting and my little friend put up too big of a fight to let her do it

    I had to do it myself after waiting it out for 15 minutes.

    Who puts your cage on?
     
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    I put it on, she decides when to take it off
     
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    I put it on. I would imagine that if I got the base ring on, she could move quickly and get the cage on before things started growing :)
     
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    I do, once I get my PA shaft only cage it could change.
     
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    i put it on and seal my key in a tamper-evident envelop that @MistressAMA signs. i like the image of Her putting it on and locking it, but practicality wins out.

    asa
     
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    From my perspective, I can’t even imagine how another person could put my cage on without huge pinching. Heck, I have to be really careful myself. So, it’s me.
     
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    I have to put the cage on and line up the lock holes. She inserts the lock, clicks it shut and always gives me a tug to let me know who, physically and emotionally, is in control. If I am ever so erect that the cage won't fit, I am required to go to the freezer for a bag of frozen veggies and not to return until the shrinkage has occurred and the cage is on, ready to be locked shut. After being locked up, I then have to "wear " the frozen veggies in my panties for 30 minutes, just to make sure I am small!
     
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    Generally, she watches while I put on the cage and align everything properly. But she is the one who inserts the lock and locks it, which is such a great reminder of who is in control.
     
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    I do, She is too afraid to pinch anything.

    That being said, standing there and fumbling your balls through the ring etc. in front of Her adds an extra layer of embarrassment. She will then either lock it or inspect the lock. I have had fantasies about having to put it on in front of a group of people under the supervision of my Wife.
     
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    I put on the belt and then make any adjustments for comfort before fitting the locks and handing the key over. My wife decides when it is to be unlocked and gives me the key so that I can remove it when the time comes.
     
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    I do. First my wife is still not on board which means everything is on me (sad lol). But also I now have a BAW cage with a BW type lock. With the posts and lock there is far more pinching if not perfect compared to my old MCN Amicus with the screw. Once on it is a huge improvement though (plus I went titanium which dropped the weight by almost 50% compared to my old cage). I also find it easiest to put on in the shower when soaped up- everything glides into place and then rinse off.
     
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    She takes it off and puts it back on, and decides when either of those things happen.
     
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    my little cages come off and on a lot cos i got 2 and one is for day and other is for nite. i put them on and Mistress put the lock in. the ring is same for both.
     
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    I put on the ring, and usually the cage. After play my wife locks it, after cleaning I do. Having her lock up after play reinforces the control she has. With my new cage, she can play without removing the ring which is less hassle when she decides I've had enough freedom for now.
     
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    I put the cage on, my husband attaches the padlock and clicks it shut, I always thank him for locking me back up.
     
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    I have to put it on and take it off. If she strips the head of the screw out then she isn't getting what she wanted and now I gotta try and use tools to get the screw out. She still likes my dick thank God.
     
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    Because of my missing arms I can´t put it on (or take it off) by myself, so my wife puts it on and takes it off.
     
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    Same here. She totally controls the key but isn't interested in the mechanics. She's the owner. I'm the janitor who doesn't have his own key.
     
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    Sometimes Lady C does it, other times she tells me to put it back on. She always turns the key though
     
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    Our plan of action as well
     
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    I like the metaphor. Like your wife, I assume, mine cares about the result, not the means.
     
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    I put it on but KH put's on lock and locks it to make sure its done correctly. :)
     
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    She takes it off, very slowly. Makes a bit of a show out of it.

    I put it on, she clicks the lock shut. She likes that.
     
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    I put mine on and take it off, the tether is a bit complicated to screw into the front of the cage (or undo).

    We use a Igloohome Lock Box which after I am locked I place the key back in it with the door open.

    My partner never fails to slap the door shut where the lock clicks audibly. She also checks it actually locked. She sends me a code to my phone when she wants me to take it off and clean it ready for her. It only comes off when she wants to use it, for cleaning is not necessary.
     
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    I put on the cage. My wife has the control of taking it off. I’m now 5 days in. My record so far. And I think she will add more time in because she is ill now
     
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