The conundrum of free will

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  1. Permantlypussyfree
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    Not sure if this is exactly the right spot for this but it's a matter of general advice I'm seeking so it seems right. If not, I beg pardon and just ask to be pointed in the better direction. Otherwise...

    So, I do self locking through the Chaster app which I am quite fond of because of the multitude of ways time can be added or removed which leads to an interesting dynamic similar to having a keyholder while also not requiring me to dedicated to the rule of a single other person. Yet still a problem has arisen due to the actions of a single peraon. Like clockwork, everyday at the same time this person loads a link obviously bookmarked (or set to do automatically) and adds the 12hs I originally set up in the good faith it would be used by those who found their way to the page, not abused by some random asshole on a power trip. At least that how it feels.

    What I'm not sure about is whether I'm wrong to be upset by this; whether I'm over reacting because I chose to set things the way I did and it could be argued I'm receiving exactly what I asked for, even if I didn't realize it at the time.

    Ultimately I could break the lock box and reset my remaining time while restricting the amount of control outside parties could have. Inconvenient but doable. Again, not sure if I should or if I should just accept what I put into motion even if it means the seemingly never-ending confinement of my fun parts.

    I would really appreciate hearing what those here think before I make any lasting decisions.
     
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    I'm not sure I understand your problem but is it possible to communicate with this person to discuss it?

    If not, just stop for a couple of weeks and he'll probably go away. Good luck
     
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    I agree!
     
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    @Permantlypussyfree oooh.. there some folks on intinet that am nasty people and when i was on one place once a long time ago one man sayed that he knowed where i live and wud come and hurt me. but he never did. but it worry me lots for a bit. i wud go somewhere else if i was you or you cud use another name and stop where you am. anyways i hope you can stop him do it.
     
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    I have tried to contact him through the sites IM but his profile says he's from Chile so there might be a language barrier issue. Unfortunately, "stopping" for awhile would require me to reset the lock timer.
     
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    Try blocking the user and see what affect that has.
     
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    unfortunately not an option. I can only block IM conversation
     
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    Well I dont understand the problem. You want to be held chaste and a person keeps it for you running.
    Everyday at the same time. Sounds nice.

    Keep it to the limit. Your dirty secret.
     
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